ok this is the first time i’ve heard cracked used for sex
me too, but I still understood it based on context
samsies
Same. I was checking the comments to see if any fellow olds were confused by it. Glad I’m not alone.
My guy friends just stopped talking to me altogether, so maybe I dodged a bullet?
You were too attactive, they couldnt handle the aura ❤️
Probably. <3
Kinda suspect this is why one of my friends immediately picked up on the fact that I was trans when I started changing my presentation a little bit when pretty much no one else notices. Given he’s tried to kiss me long before I knew I was trans, I kinda suspect he’d rather I be trans just so the relationship would be less gay. Maybe I should actually come out to him (despite him knowing for years) to see if he says something like that.
homie was trying to pre-order 😭
Onky one way to find out 🥵
nah, I’d rather hit it with somebody who has more tact and builds up to it naturally. it wouldn’t really be that hard if we were already good friends
Obviously joking about just anyone but i definitely had a few guy friends that i was like “if you were more open and accepting, id smash ngl” but such is life lol
There are 1 or 2 guys I used to know for me as well, but those people are almost certainly married at this point because they were total catches
Sisters, you have to realize for immature male brains, they see themselves like this:
They are flirting as a facade, either because they are still processing you are indeed a woman, so passing it as a forgivable joke masks the mental framework that they now need consider you as a woman, and treat you like one, or they really want their themselves cracked off the closet. Either way, it shows their immaturity to take your serious conversation as something they absolutely need to support you with.
I am not saying them joking is NOT JUST immature of them to make, but that they need time to process you are being vulnerable with them, and going forward they must take steps to count you as a female friend. Socially, and mentally, it is a process that males cannot up and switch. They don’t have our maturity to say: “then girlfriend (female friend), are we still up for Mikey’s on Fridays?”
I can speak to my experience with male brain; I’ve matured a lot but comedy is still a massive emotional crutch for me.
I’m lucky to have had a head start by having a trans parent to guide me and be patient, so I’d easily not make the mistake in the meme. But being open and genuine is still a choice I still had to make deliberately in some situations up until maybe a decade ago.
Transaffirming objectification.
Gender Ewwphoria
That face.
I can’t.
i basically assume that this wojak will have a bad take at this point
I have a great male friend who just calls me boo now and that’s it. Honestly got pretty lucky nobody has said this, but I’m afraid that might mean they’re thinking it fr.
This was one of the big benefits of me not having any friends from before transition in my life. I did know a girl who might have been into me in the past, but I think transitioning had the opposite effect. I’m even more glad that I never reciprocated the flirting
