'94 model (trans)Woman, few bumps and scrapes but good condition overall

Amateur photographer, fountain pen and flashlight nerd, i just want to leave the world better than i found it ❤️

Poly marriage, Bi

A risk to your establishment

Inbox is always open ❤️

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“If god were real, Bezos would have died in space”

“Apathy’s a tragedy and boredom is a crime”

“The only thing necessary for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing”

“Quotes are for people too stupid to say anything intelligent on their own”

“Whisper your grief, scream your sorrow, proclaim your love, just dont call me your hero”

“Life is an adventure and the body is a prison”

            WALL OF SHAME

Hated@lemmy.world ---- 7-26-2026 ----- trolled past posts, phony pins, phony lifestyle blah blah 😂

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Cake day: December 1st, 2025
  • Brooke (she/her) ( brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) toTrans@lemmy.blahaj.zone•A little relationship advice?English
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    11 hours ago

    Lol im poly as well, and even i think that if i myself dont make it very clear that thats what im expecting then its just going to lead to hurt feelings and tears.

    I mean honestly, think about it. The worst thats gonna happen if i dont say it outright is that im not being true to any other relationships i have, and what less sex maybe?? But on the flip if i do go and do something with another relation without telling the new hire then their feelings are absolutely going ti be hurt. And i dont want that ultimately.

    I mean sure if you had only been on one date, no physical contact or anything yet then whatever. I still think that this should be one of the first things talked about though. And anyone dating me would absolutely know im poly in the first 3 minutes of our first date, or even before the ask out.

    Guess thats just me 🤷‍♀️

  • Brooke (she/her) ( brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) toTrans@lemmy.blahaj.zone•A little relationship advice?English
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    14 hours ago

    Monogamy is the default, poly is the exception. Meaning that, if nothing has been discussed then everyone is going to assume their relationship is exclusive.

    This person sucks, guess assholes exist everywhere, even in the trans community. Being trans doesnt make you a good person.

    I like to think of the first or second date as the session zero of the relationship. Its the time to set rules and boundaries and expectations. Mostly first date is for seeing if you even gel together, second one lays down the foundation of it yknow?

    Other than that, fuck this girl. If she didnt say anything about it then shes the asshole lol

    Im sorry youre going through this all over again sister, keep texting me ❤️❤️❤️