I’ve been a grandma for 20 years lol. Grandma still smokes hella weed and has an active romantic life but that’s not the world’s business.

I’m glad the youth (seem to be) deciding they don’t need to present a “desirable” image to the world and can be cozy. Nothing wrong with choosing to present yourself as youthful and attractive if that’s what feels right! The point is it should be your choice. We exist for more than public consumption.

Lmao, I literally just ran across an hour ago.

It’s the evolution. Learning to be comfortable in your own skin, earlier, and express it. I love this for the younger generation.

Now, if all men can learn to define their self/role separate from that of women, to be comfortable in their own skin, before trying to seek out women, they too can evolve. Instead of this hard flailing in response to our brief, 50yr liberation, a flail that has given birth to things like maga and the birther movement.

My ideal friday night is spent alone spinning wool, baking cookies, wearing comfy pants, and overclocking my PC.

I have definitely leaned into it. I’m 39 and I could go out and try to date etc. But in the past years I’ve reclaimed myself, and my mental health is better, and I have a house, and genuine friends, and the list goes on….so anyways I’ll just stay here in this peaceful space.

Look, why don’t you try spending an evening in a warm bath with a glass of Chardonnay and a good book? Or snuggled up on the couch crocheting in a comfy blanket? Throw a cheese plate into the mix for good measure.

I guarantee you’ll come out of the experience wondering why grandma-ification isn’t happening even earlier.

I’m at a nude beach and spent the whole day working on a sewing project.

Yarp