• ZDL ( ZDL@lazysoci.al ) 
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    1 month ago

    Trust your gut. If s/he is making you feel uncomfortable, even if you can’t point to specifically what is wrong, if the final gut check says something is wrong, something is wrong. Get out.

    • Eq0 ( Eq0@literature.cafe ) 
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      And vice versa, when your gut tells you to go for it, that’s a good sign! (But you still want to use rationality to check)

      Having friends to reality check situations of all types is a good idea. Just be truthful.