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Zizzy ( Zizzy@lemmy.blahaj.zone )  to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 7 days ago

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Zizzy ( Zizzy@lemmy.blahaj.zone )  to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 7 days ago
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  • MoonRaven ( MoonRaven@feddit.nl ) 
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    5 days ago

    Isn’t on X

  • belated_frog_pants ( belated_frog_pants@beehaw.org ) 
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    Table stakes

  • HappyFrog ( HappyFrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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    Hot take, but AI is really only bad because of capitalism.

    • Zizzy ( Zizzy@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) OP
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      AI wouldnt exist in any similar form without capitalism, so youre technically roght. But devaluing (emotionally) artists works and making it harder to discover them because of easy mass proloferation of ai works (would happen regardless of capitalism imo) is a very heavy negative already, not to mention to the ecological toll it takes, which isnt solved by removing capitalism from the equation either as thats necessary for it to function in its current state

      • HappyFrog ( HappyFrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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        If generative AI wouldn’t exist in a society without capitalism we would have failed. We need innovation and science, just without the profit motive. I agree that it probably wouldn’t be as prevalent, but we don’t stop cern because it requires a lot of energy.

        • gandalf_die_12te ( gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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          cern might be a bad example. cern was literally built because every nation on earth feared that it would be left behind on the development of even stronger nuclear physics shenanigans to make weapons out of it; and every country wanted to be “in” on the world-class research in this field. that’s why every country benefits from participation in CERN. this research was not paid because of “good-will”, but because of fear and military necessity.

    • belated_frog_pants ( belated_frog_pants@beehaw.org ) 
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      The massive electricity usage and labor theft is pretty bad.

      • Sordid_Seraphim ( Sordid_Seraphim@lemmy.zip ) 
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        Which wouldn’t be so bad if it wasn’t for capitalism. We would have likely already adopted renewables by now and AI wouldn’t have been commercialized bullshit so we in turn wouldn’t have super massive datacenters.

  • erotador ( erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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    til zizzy wont date me

    • Zizzy ( Zizzy@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) OP
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      I would make any exception for you

  • Uriel238 [all pronouns] ( uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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    I’d qualify but I’m sure I’d have the wrong bits for GF stuff.

  • Enkrod ( Enkrod@feddit.org ) 
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    Don’t ever settle for someone with whom liking you is optional. Love with all your heart and make sure to feel loved.

    • Swedneck ( Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de ) 
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      i mean i think it’s okay to not be madly in love, so long as both people are on the same page about the situation.
      If both people are only in the relationship because they can’t find any other relationship, so long as both are aware and okay with that then it’s a hell of a lot better than nothing. And who knows, maybe at some point they realize “oh shit we’re actually in love”

      • birdwing ( birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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        That’s me right there. I feel guilty because I’m not really attracted to my loved one’s appearance - ‘basic white blonde/ginger bitch & nerd’ is moreso my weak spot. But they don’t look like that at all.

        On the other hand, they’re really kind and sweet. And that makes me feel even more guilty because I couldn’t bring it to my heart to say, sorry but no. But on the other hand, I shouldn’t be so judging on appearances. Gruhhh!! Maybe it’s my own dysphoria and lack of uterus or definite femme appearances, but still, ugh.

        • Swedneck ( Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de ) 
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          i kinda hate the idea that simply not being attracted to someone is “judging their appearance”, i don’t understand where society got that idea.
          Like what are you supposed to do, gaslight yourself into finding them attractive? no matter how i turn it, it just feels incredibly abusive towards the person who isn’t attracted.

    • CheesyFingers ( CheesyFingers@piefed.social ) 
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      “Make sure to feel loved” LOL

  • maria ~ ( Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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    oh oki
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