Miisha ♀️ ( Miisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 2 days agoClub rule [CW: mentions of chasers]NSFWlemmy.blahaj.zoneimagemessage-square21linkfedilinkarrow-up197file-text
arrow-up197imageClub rule [CW: mentions of chasers]NSFWlemmy.blahaj.zoneMiisha ♀️ ( Miisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 2 days agomessage-square21linkfedilinkfile-text
minus-squareLily ( Shirow@lemmy.zip ) linkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up50·2 days agoThat happened to me, ended differently. And no I didn’t consent to be touched, fuck them and people harassing. Probably will not go clubbing again unless I’m in a safe group.
minus-squareMiisha ♀️ ( Miisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) OPlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up29·2 days agoFuck…I’m so sorry to hear that 🫂 That’s neither funny nor okay to do, to anyone for any reason. Fuck those people I hope you’re doing better…🩵
minus-squarefonix232 ( fonix232@fedia.io ) linkfedilinkarrow-up20·2 days agoAnd that’s why I do t go to clubs. I’m horrible at reading body language directed at me, so I either end up doing something inappropriate because I misread the situation, or, the much more likely scenario is, I end up doing nothing when I was given the (not so) clear signal…
minus-squareAxolotl ( Axolotl_cpp@feddit.it ) linkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up6·1 day agoI wonder why the fuck we cannot just talk, we ain’t birds who have to make signals
minus-squarefonix232 ( fonix232@fedia.io ) linkfedilinkarrow-up3·1 day agoBecause people aren’t comfortable talking. And it does make it awkward when e.g. you’re dancing with someone. “hey can I touch your waist” etc.
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That happened to me, ended differently.
And no I didn’t consent to be touched, fuck them and people harassing. Probably will not go clubbing again unless I’m in a safe group.
Fuck…I’m so sorry to hear that 🫂
That’s neither funny nor okay to do, to anyone for any reason. Fuck those people
I hope you’re doing better…🩵
And that’s why I do t go to clubs.
I’m horrible at reading body language directed at me, so I either end up doing something inappropriate because I misread the situation, or, the much more likely scenario is, I end up doing nothing when I was given the (not so) clear signal…
I wonder why the fuck we cannot just talk, we ain’t birds who have to make signals
Because people aren’t comfortable talking. And it does make it awkward when e.g. you’re dancing with someone. “hey can I touch your waist” etc.