I have no idea what there is not to understand about this…and why it’s mostly men complaining about “protecting women’s spaces”, lol.

This might upset some people, and you know what? Good.
If this upsets you, at least the others will know and the trash can take itself out.

    • velma ( velma@sh.itjust.works ) English
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      17 hours ago

      The answer is to let people use the restroom that they feel fits the best and prosecute the people who predate on others.

      It’s not difficult and it’s not confusing.

        • velma ( velma@sh.itjust.works ) English
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          16 hours ago

          I also have sympathy for the cis woman who lives her life thinking she’s safer with a bear than a man, feeling upset that there might be a person with a penis in a place that used to be a safe space for her.

          First off - how dare you take that man vs bear debate and frame women choosing the bear as TERFs.

          Second - Restrooms aren’t safe spaces, men have gone into restrooms to assault women before and will continue to do so no matter what sign is on the door.

          Third - giving in to our unfounded fears and punishing innocents for our own lack of education isn’t an option. It shouldn’t be an option. Trans women are not inherently dangerous to cis women.