Beehaw
  • Communities
  • Create Post
  • search
    Search
  • Login
  • Sign Up
balerion ( balerion@beehaw.org )  to LGBTQ+English · 3 years ago

Kink at pride discourse sucks

64.media.tumblr.com

message-square
71
link
fedilink
58

Kink at pride discourse sucks

64.media.tumblr.com

balerion ( balerion@beehaw.org )  to LGBTQ+English · 3 years ago
message-square
71
link
fedilink
  • Bicyclejohn ( Bicyclejohn@lemmy.ml ) 
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    9
    ·
    3 years ago

    How did that become part of pride, wtf do they have in common?

    • balerion ( balerion@beehaw.org ) OP
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      26
      ·
      3 years ago

      The line between kink and queerness has historically been very blurry. Being gay or trans was once considered a sexual fetish just like any other.

      Kink has always been part of pride; it did not “become” a part of it. Both kink and queerness are sexual identities that are marginalized by the mainstream, so it makes sense that they would come together to throw bricks at cops.

    • AwkwardChuckle ( AwkwardChuckle@beehaw.org ) 
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      20
      ·
      3 years ago

      There has historically been close links and ties within the kink and lgbtq+ community. Leather is (or more so was) a huge part of the gay male scene.

    • Jerkface (any/all) ( jerkface@lemmy.ca ) 
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      16
      ·
      edit-2
      9 months ago

      Removed by mod

      • alyaza [they/she] ( alyaza@beehaw.org ) 
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        16
        ·
        3 years ago

        Pride is an expression of sexuality. Proving to ourselves that it is okay for the world to see us as we are. Some people’s sexuality is kinky, that’s just the form some people’s sexuality takes. When a kinky person is gay and they want to express their sexuality, it’s going to look kinky.

        there’s also a long history of these communities existing at pride, even if they may not inherently be queer. bear, leather, and BDSM communities to name a few have been intertwined with pride and the queer community for basically as long as there’s been pride!

        • Jerkface (any/all) ( jerkface@lemmy.ca ) 
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          17
          ·
          edit-2
          9 months ago

          Removed by mod

    • meredith ( meredith@beehaw.org ) 
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      6
      ·
      3 years ago

      There is a really great writeup called A History of Leather at Pride: 1965-1995 that talks about this. It’s very long, but I found it worth reading.

LGBTQ+

lgbtq_plus

Subscribe from Remote Instance

Create a post
You are not logged in. However you can subscribe from another Fediverse account, for example Lemmy or Mastodon. To do this, paste the following into the search field of your instance: !lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org

All forms of queer news and culture. Nonsectarian and non-exclusionary.

See also this community’s sister subs Feminism, Neurodivergence, Disability, and POC


Beehaw currently maintains an LGBTQ+ resource wiki, which is up to date as of July 10, 2023.


This community’s icon was made by Aaron Schneider, under the CC-BY-NC-SA 4.0 license.

Visibility: Public
globe

This community can be federated to other instances and be posted/commented in by their users.

  • 26 users / day
  • 106 users / week
  • 124 users / month
  • 932 users / 6 months
  • 1.74K local subscribers
  • 7.75K subscribers
  • 1.33K Posts
  • 8.54K Comments
  • Modlog
  • mods:
  • Chris Remington ( remington@beehaw.org ) 
  • alyaza [they/she] ( alyaza@beehaw.org ) 
  • Cass.Forest ( cityboundforest@beehaw.org ) 
  • Kuromantis ( Kuromantis@beehaw.org ) 
  • Gaywallet (they/it) ( Gaywallet@beehaw.org ) 
  • jennifilm ( jennifilm@beehaw.org ) 
  • UngodlyAudrey🏳️‍⚧️ ( UngodlyAudrey@beehaw.org ) 
  • BE: 0.19.15
  • Modlog
  • Legal
  • Instances
  • Docs
  • Code