I, 35M, have never been much into reading. I just never found that one book that I thought was fantastic. Everything felt OK at best.

How can I ask you for advice when I don’t even know what I like myself? I don’t know. I think a fantasy or mythological theme would work best. Something fast paced and with a non sad ending. I’m open to pretty much everything, though.

Maybe by listing what books I have read and what I found displeasing about them you can suggest me a book or two to try? Give me some feedback!

Books I remember reading:

  • Circe - I like the mythological theme, I think this was the book I enjoyed the most. I found it a bit bland, like the story pretty much lead to nothing of interest.

  • The Hobbit - I love the lord of the rings movies (never tried the books), I thought maybe I’d enjoy this book. I didn’t enjoy the plot, don’t really wanna spoil why.

  • Da Vinci Code - I thought it was fine, I guess I enjoy plots with some mystery.

  • Angels and Demons - honestly felt like the same book, I don’t know if I even finished it

  • Digital Fortress - as a software developer, i thought the theme would pull me in but it didn’t. It actually felt like the same book again and I have tried reading it three times without success.

  • 100 years of solitude - I read this a long time ago so I don’t really remember why I didn’t enjoy it. I remember it being a slog with long and very detailed descriptions of situations that didn’t feel to matter at all.

Thanks!

  • I can highly recommend basically anything written by Brandon Sanderson, especially the Cosmere series. It consists of a lot of books (and many on the way), that describe multiple worlds. What makes his books special is the way magic is integrated into the world. It’s not just 14th century Europe with wizards here and there, magic makes an impact on the society in a way that’s realistic. His books are easy to read, with a few exceptions (more on that below).

    As for what to start with, I’d recommend two series:

    • Mistborn - a series revolving around a dystopian world. The first book in the series is somewhat a fantasy heist story. Easy to read, though you can tell it’s one of the earlier Brandon’s books, his style of writing improves in time.
    • Stormlight Archives - this is the series Brandon outdid himself TBH. The world is at the very alien, but in a way that makes sense. The books suck you in and don’t let go, making you want know more about the world and the characters. Be wary though, getting through the first few chapters takes some determination, as it starts slowly. And since the world is very different to our own, some words don’t make sense at start, which can be slightly offputting. But getting through the first chapters is worth it.
  • The Jakarta Method by Vincent Bevins. It covers the parallel histories of post colonial Indonesia’s status as the figurehead of the none-aligned third world countries during the cold war, alongside the establishment and growth of the CIA and apparently eventually culminates in detailing how the CIA overthrew the government, installed a dictator and then backed him to murder over a million communists, feminists and ethnic minorities.

    its pretty damn grim, so far by chapter 5 Bevins has covered the CIA’s roles in the coups in Iran, Guatemala and the Phillipines and their backing of rebels to start a low level civil war in Indonesia.

  • I find when I get in a slump, that going to the library and picking up a bunch of books at a time and trying to jump into them to see what sticks really works.

    If I go and commit to like five books, one is going to hook me!

    Also if you liked Circe (oh man did I love it) you might really love Song of Achilles (also by Madeline Miller).

  • The only way I’ve been able to “read” is through audiobooks. I listen during my work commute. It’s really enjoyable. Makes commuting enjoyable to an extent. Also, if you get a really good narrator, the experience is great.

  • “The Martian” by Andy Weir

    Your book list makes it seem like you’ve got a pretty similar taste to me and that one hooked me in the first page. I like to describe that book as being “high adrelinaline problem solving”. I’m also a SWE and think that’s part of the reason it was so appealing to me.

  • Hm. Some fantasy stories / books I really enjoyed and recommend are:

    Eragon by Christopher Paolini. Just awesome. The pacing is gentle but a lot higher compared to The Hobbit or The Lord Of The Rings. One of the best fantasy stories I know, I read all the books multiple times. Warning: Don’t watch the movie. Just don’t.

    The Idhún’s Memories by Laura Gallego. I’ve read them a long time ago, so I don’t know if I’d still enjoy them that much, but I’ve great memories.

    I didn’t read The Name Of The Wind yet, but it was recommended to me multiple times as THE best book.

    If you don’t mind science-fiction, I also would recommend Children Of Time by Adrian Tchaikovski.

    Side note: Fantasy is quite a heavy genre if you’re not really into reading yet. Often the good books are large, which makes it harder to finish in a reasonable time. General tipp: try to read one hour a day. This creates a habit and you will soon read a lot faster, which makes it a lot easier to just grind through a book as if it was nothing. Also try different genres, maybe one doesn’t sound appealing, but you would enjoy it anyway.

    • I do own a very old Kindle that I thought would ignite my interest in reading. I found that I didn’t enjoy reading on the Kindle, which is honestly quite a bummer. I also found it harder for me to read books in English and the Kindle store doesn’t have books in portuguese. It’s not like I can’t read in English, more like it’s another small obstacle to pick up the book and read.

      I’d rather have a digital library and not spend space to store the books but alas :(

  • If you liked Circe, you might enjoy Song of Achilles by the same author. Maybe also Kaikeyi by Vaishnavi Patel — similar to Circe, it’s a mythic retelling focusing on a character that’s not usually in the spotlight. I read it recently and really liked it

  • Here are a bunch of books that I enjoyed that might work for you based on what you’ve already read.

    Bridge of Birds by Barry Hughart is the first of three books in that series, and it won the World Fantasy Award in 1985. Set in “an ancient China that never was”, it’s the story of a young peasant man who’s as strong as an ox, and an ancient sage with a slight flaw in his character. It draws on Chinese folk tales and history, as well as a bit of Sherlock Holmes. It’s a mystery with magic, humor, adventure, and it’s simply mind-blowing.

    Lawrence Watt-Evans’ Ethshar is a refreshing change from the usual fantasy tropes. His protagonists are unusual for the genre in that they’re actually intelligent and decent people. They think about their challenges and make plans to deal with them - and while their plans aren’t always perfect, the forethought generally helps. That’s rare, in a genre where many novels would be less than half as long if the protagonists weren’t idiots! His writing style also has an exceptional clarity. The series begins with The Misenchanted Sword (1985). I should mention that the books in the series effectively stand alone; they feature different protagonists, and are set at different times and places in the same world. In other words, you can read one without having to read the others in order to get a complete story.

    Steven Brust is quite possibly the best fantasy author currently living. His Vlad Taltos series is gritty high-fantasy; magical resurrection is common, though expensive, and psionic communication is almost as common as cell phones are in our world. At the same time it has a strong Sopranos flavor. The protagonist starts as an assassin and minor crime boss, a despised human in an Empire of elves. It starts with Jhereg (1983). I’ve introduced a lot of friends to that series, and every single one of them has loved it.

    He also wrote a parallel series in the style of Alexander Dumas, set in the same universe: The Khaavren Romances. Those books are considerably thicker, and the language is practically baroque - but fun, if you like Dumas. The first book maps closely to The Three Musketeers, and is titled The Phoenix Guards (1991).

    Barry Longyear’s The God Box (1989) is a fantasy about a rug merchant who gains a very strange inheritance that sends him on a trip through time as well as across the world. His travels are exciting, funny, enlightening and in the end deeply moving. He learns how to cope with his inner demons in a way that works for the reader, too. The concept of the “god box” has stuck with me ever since I read this book. I highly recommend it.

    Robert Sheckley’s Store of Infinity (1960) was the first science fiction book I ever bought for myself. It was a very lucky find, because a better collection of dazzling short stories would be hard to imagine. It’s a great introduction to his work. Among the many wonderful and hysterically funny stories in this book is “The Prize of Peril”, which predicted reality TV (and its worst excesses) decades before it happened! Sheckley is arguably the O. Henry of science fiction.

    I have a special place in my heart for Eric Frank Russell’s The Great Explosion (1962); in it, Russell created a world that I want to live in. It’s a funny, thought-provoking, and ultimately moving book. Hundreds of years after Earth was virtually depopulated by a mass exodus, spaceships are sent out to gather the far-flung colonies into a new empire. But the colonies, based on various splinter groups, have developed their own societies and have their own ideas. The full text of the book is available free online.

    Try Leave It to Psmith (1923), by P. G. Wodehouse. It’s incredibly witty and laugh-out-loud funny. Plus it’s available free in all the major ebook formats. You can read it online for free at the same link, too.

    Look up the works of Lord Dunsany. He was an early pioneer in the field of fantasy, and a major early influence on H. P. Lovecraft; his stories and plays have a fairy-tale quality that’s mesmerizing. Most of his works are now in the public domain, available free from Project Gutenberg. I would recommend starting with The Book Of Wonder (1912), A Dreamer’s Tales (1910), or Fifty-One Tales (1915).

    Kim (1901) by Rudyard Kipling is the story of a boy coming of age in colonial India. Kipling grew up in India himself, and the sheer richness of the many cultures that Kim experiences as he travels across India and up into the lower Himalayas with a Tibetan llama is mind-blowing. Meanwhile Kim is drawn into the “Great Game” of spying between the European powers. It’s a deeply moving and beautiful book. Best of all, you can download it for free in all the major ebook formats!


    Note: Please consider patronizing your local independent book shops instead of Amazon; they can order books for you that they don’t have in stock. Amazon has put a lot of great independent book shops out of business.

    And of course there’s always your local library. If they don’t have a book, they may be able to get it for you via inter-library loan.

    If you’d rather order direct online, Thriftbooks and Powell’s Books are good. You might also check libraries in your general area; most of them sell books at very low prices to raise funds. I’ve made some great finds at library book sales! For used books, Biblio.com, BetterWorldBooks.com, and Biblio.co.uk are independent book marketplaces that serve independent book shops - NOT Amazon.

    Happy reading! 📖

    PS - Thank you. Recommending books was my favorite thing to do on Reddit, and this was my first chance to do it here.