- ngoomie ( @ngoomie@pawb.social ) 11•2 years ago
aroallo gang rise up
- Shhalahr ( @Shhalahr@beehaw.org ) 4•2 years ago
Oh, yeah! Lots of folks seem to think Aro automatically means AroAce. Glad to see AroAllo rep!
- Mnglw ( @mnglw@beehaw.org ) 11•2 years ago
hello! aromantic asexual agender here. I’m truly triple A 😎
holy based
- confusedwiseman ( @confusedwiseman@beehaw.org ) 10•2 years ago
Hello all, and I think I learned a new word today. If someone is more informed, I’d love to learn.
Aromantic: Lack of romantic attraction to others; low or absent desire for romantic activity.
- Gormadt ( @Gormadt@beehaw.org ) 6•2 years ago
Here’s also a great video about AroAce from a YouTuber named Jaiden Animations.
When my roommate and I watched it it was very eye opening for what being Aromatic and being Asexual is.
- Shhalahr ( @Shhalahr@beehaw.org ) 6•2 years ago
Here’s a starting point: https://www.aromanticism.org/
Got any specific questions?
- confusedwiseman ( @confusedwiseman@beehaw.org ) 2•2 years ago
Thanks, I’ll check this out. All new to me, What’s life without perspectives different from our own?
- Seedling (she/they) ( @seedling@beehaw.org ) 9•2 years ago
I guess if this is the aromantic thread, I’m curious: how long did it take people to figure out they’re aromantic? I realized I was queer at like 12 but it took till my 30s to realize I was aromantic, maybe cause I didn’t know that was a thing until then and I thought I was just, like, failing to live up to my responsibility to find myself a relationship
- ngoomie ( @ngoomie@pawb.social ) 5•2 years ago
Took me until I was, I believe, 16 despite discovering that both aromanticism and asexuality were a thing a long, long time prior, because it was only then that I realized you can be aromantic without being asexual. When I was younger I thought I was ace + bi or something for a bit, but that felt really, really off.
- BlueSharkEnjoyer ( @BlueSharkEnjoyer@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 5•2 years ago
30s, when I came across a proper explanation of the split attraction model. I’m also some form of asexual.
- Borimino ( @Borimino@feddit.dk ) 3•2 years ago
I was never really interested in that kind of stuff (boy/girlfriends, sex), but I didn’t have a word for it, it knew of other people who felt similarly until I was at a Pride Parade and was given a flier. Thinking “this is probably an add, but I’ll read it anyway” I for the first time read about aces, and later read about aros aswell. So I learned about it in my early 20’s.
- Seedling (she/they) ( @seedling@beehaw.org ) 7•2 years ago
👋
- Shhalahr ( @Shhalahr@beehaw.org ) 5•2 years ago
Hi!
- Outlaw From 1899 ( @outlawfrom1899@lemmy.world ) 5•2 years ago
Greetings! I’m not just an aromantic, I’m also an ace (asexual) and non-binary (agender).
Where I live, self-identities like these are seen as being weird and unusual. For example, usin as a pronoun will make people think that you can’t speak English.
Growing up, I had never thought sexuality and gender-identity to be in the form of a spectrum. Funnily enough, It was only because of this little game, called Undertale, did I get to know about these gender and sexual identities.
So yeah, thank you Undertale for helping me discover my true identity. Truly one of the best things in my life.
- Kyle ( @Kyle@lemmy.ca ) 3•2 years ago
I had trouble following this thread for a bit because I thought it said “aromatic” and expected people to start talking about their favorite colognes, perfumes and smells like bakeries and other scented things.
- Ccx [they/them/🐰] ( @ccx@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 2•2 years ago
Quoiromantic hello to you back. :-)
- Retronautickz ( @retronautickz@beehaw.org ) 2•2 years ago
Hi! Aplaro here
- lemonadebunny ( @lemonadebunny@lemmy.ca ) 2•2 years ago
Hi! I’m aromantic, thank you for the greeting 💛
- HoleMuncher ( @HoleMuncher@sh.itjust.works ) 1•2 years ago
Not aro, but hello!!!