Hi guys, I failed my automatic driving test today and my parents told me to just bribe?? Is this actually a thing here?? What do I even say?? Who do I talk to?? I signed up to safety driving school who seem legit so would they even take it?? Someone plz help.
- foosel ( @foosel@feddit.de ) 83•1 year ago
Is this actually a thing here
You would increase your chances to get helpful insight significantly if you’d clarify where “here” is. It’s a big world with a ton of countries, and this is an international place.
- Double_A ( @Double_A@discuss.tchncs.de ) 32•1 year ago
Here obviously means where OP lives. :^)
- fades ( @fades@beehaw.org ) 27•1 year ago
You need to pass the safety test, not pay for it. It will only make you a better and more confident driver
Money won’t be there in the moment when those developed instincts are required
- HeartyBeast ( @HeartyBeast@kbin.social ) 27•1 year ago
As a fellow road-user - please don’t.
- corsicanguppy ( @corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca ) 24•1 year ago
So you’ve learned:
- driving tests are harder than you thought
- your parents have ethics problems
Don’t leave your kids with your parents, is the real take-away here.
- writeblankspace ( @writeblankspace@geddit.social ) 21•1 year ago
IMO if you think it’s immoral, don’t do it. You’d be totally in the right to not bribe them.
If you do wish to bribe… then idk… but I feel like bribing could potentially cause some legal trouble.
- cheeseburger ( @cheeseburger@lemmy.ca ) 21•1 year ago
Where?
safety driving school
- Chozo ( @Chozo@kbin.social ) 32•1 year ago
I think they meant what country.
- WigglyTortoise ( @WigglyTortoise@dmv.social ) 11•1 year ago
The Democratic Republic of Safety Driving School
- DarkThoughts ( @DarkThoughts@kbin.social ) 13•1 year ago
No, don’t even think about doing it. Your parents are morons and I suggest you do not take any parental advice from them. This is nothing but a completely brain dead idea that could get you in a lot of legal trouble.
- adonis ( @adonis@kbin.social ) 4•1 year ago
well, not only a legal trouble… the parents are putting OPs and others lifes in danger.
- 🇰 🌀 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 ℹ️ ( @Kolanaki@yiffit.net ) 12•1 year ago
Is it possible your parents were joking?
- collegefurtrader ( @collegefurtrader@discuss.tchncs.de ) 11•1 year ago
Not recommend in the US
- Mothra ( @Mothra@mander.xyz ) 10•1 year ago
Depends on the country, I lived in places where bribing is the norm and you can even get a licence without ever attempting a test that way. But in other countries the sole mention of a bribe can get you arrested. So be careful. You’ll have to be more specific about where you are trying to get a licence. And be smart about the unspoken cultural norms wherever that is.
- Rayleigh ( @Rayleigh@feddit.de ) 7•1 year ago
Maybe I’m crazy, but isnt just learning how to drive an option? Especially automatic is really not that hard.
- atlasraven31 ( @atlasraven31@lemm.ee ) 6•1 year ago
You: “Maybe this crisp Washington will change your mind”
Them: “Are you trying to bribe me with a $1 bill?”
- adonis ( @adonis@kbin.social ) 4•1 year ago
yes… and there’s more where this comes from 😎
- andrew ( @andrew@midwest.social ) 6•1 year ago
It sounds like you might have misunderstood them. To me, it’s sounds like they are telling you to just BIKE. I’d suggest a used bike from a reputable manufacturer, in my city that will set ya back about 200, less than you’d pay for JUST insurance. On a simple bike like this any problem you might experience will be easily diagnosable and self fixable or you can go to a shop and pay a little extra. If you live in an area where things are far apart you might want to look into an e bike, those range from about 1k or more. They can go from 20-30mph and should be treated more seriously as you ride as on a regular bike you will probably only achieve 10-15mph averages. That will have the negative tradeoff of being harder to work on, more expensive, and perhaps frowned upon by “sport” cyclists. Check out this resource for more safety information.
- borlax ( @borlax@lemmy.borlax.com ) 6•1 year ago
Or just suck less at driving and maybe you will pass next time.
- HipPriest ( @HipPriest@kbin.social ) 5•1 year ago
From your tone it doesn’t sound like you’re comfortable with the idea. Would it be so bad to try retaking it? Would your parents be angry or give you grief over it? I know there’s different levels of acceptability of bribery in different parts of the world so I’m guessing your somewhere where it’s not as strictly monitored as where I am.
But go with your instincts. At the end of the day it’s you taking the risk of paying a bribe, not your parents, and it’s your moral choice, not theirs. But at the same time I know how annoying parental pressure can be!
- osmn ( @osmn@lemmy.ml ) 4•1 year ago
Don’t forget, you, not OP, are also taking a risk. We’re all on the road, it’s fucking disgusting that people will do this instead of just study for a little bit.