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WackyTabbacy42069 ( WackyTabbacy42069@reddthat.com )  to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 3 years ago

What is the most attractive non-physical characteristic someone can have?

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What is the most attractive non-physical characteristic someone can have?

WackyTabbacy42069 ( WackyTabbacy42069@reddthat.com )  to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 3 years ago
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    Kindness

    • Kindnessworks ( Kindnessworks@lemmy.ml ) 
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      I agree ; -)

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    Curiosity for things

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      Yep, even if someone doesn’t know something it’s perfect if they’re open to learning more :)

      They don’t have to be interested in every topic, it’s the openness that goes a long way

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    Intelligence

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      I so feel this. Whenever someone has a smart niche, whether it’s just reading a lot or being skilled at something like maths, they become sooo much more attractive to me

  • Lettuce eat lettuce ( Lettuceeatlettuce@lemmy.ml ) 
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    Passion for something. It′s such a turnoff when you are talking to somebody and they aren’t interested in anything.

    Current events? Meh. Books? Meh. Films/Shows? Meh.

    I don’t care if it’s stamp collecting or chewing gum flavors or the history of wallpaper design, just be passionate or interested in something. At least we can converse for while on that topic.

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        Lol! Everything in moderation I suppose. But at least if I had that interaction with somebody, I would have an interesting story to tell people haha.

      • Ubettawerk ( Ubettawerk@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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        I’m actually pretty enthusiastic about psyllium husk supplements so you have my attention!

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    Authorship of open-source GPU drivers.

    • Alavi ( somegeek@programming.dev ) 
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      Ah. The dream wife of all geeks

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    To borrow the new age term, an old soul.

    There are just people who possess a sort of cynically detached understanding of the world and people. They aren’t fired by largely pointless passion or desire, they’re intelligent and perceptive enough to generally understand things and emotionally mature enough to generally accept them and they have a way of just sort of gliding through life, maintaining a relatively even keel instead of getting distracted and disconcerted by irrelevancies.

    Every single person I’ve ever known who was like that has been or is special to me.

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    Confidence

  • Dr. Wesker ( wesker@lemmy.sdf.org ) 
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    A rich family.

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  • queermunist she/her ( queermunist@lemmy.ml ) 
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    Consent 😎

    • meyotch ( meyotch@slrpnk.net ) 
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      Ok!

      • queermunist she/her ( queermunist@lemmy.ml ) 
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        oh fk 🥵

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    Surprised good sense of humor or wit aren’t on here yet. Playfully sparring with someone or laughing until it hurts when you hang around a person are a turn on.

  • DeltaTangoLima ( DeltaTangoLima@reddrefuge.com ) 
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    Someone who doesn’t impose their will, beliefs, or anything else on another person.

    My ex wife worked very hard at changing me, until I barely recognised who I was. My now wife let me be myself again, and I will forever lover her for that.

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    A good sense of humor.

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    Can make smart and educated jokes. Will laugh at fart jokes.

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    The most attractive quality a person can have is being into me.

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