dan1101 ( @dan1101@lemm.ee ) 49•11 months agoKindness
Kindnessworks ( @Kindnessworks@lemmy.ml ) 8•11 months agoI agree ; -)
kambusha ( @kambusha@feddit.ch ) 45•11 months agoCuriosity for things
Otter ( @otter@lemmy.ca ) English5•11 months agoYep, even if someone doesn’t know something it’s perfect if they’re open to learning more :)
They don’t have to be interested in every topic, it’s the openness that goes a long way
Jeena ( @jeena@jemmy.jeena.net ) 41•11 months agoIntelligence
I so feel this. Whenever someone has a smart niche, whether it’s just reading a lot or being skilled at something like maths, they become sooo much more attractive to me
Lettuce eat lettuce ( @Lettuceeatlettuce@lemmy.ml ) 39•11 months agoPassion for something. It′s such a turnoff when you are talking to somebody and they aren’t interested in anything.
Current events? Meh. Books? Meh. Films/Shows? Meh.
I don’t care if it’s stamp collecting or chewing gum flavors or the history of wallpaper design, just be passionate or interested in something. At least we can converse for while on that topic.
Hazzia ( @Hazzia@discuss.tchncs.de ) 4•11 months agoAdlib examples for pretending to have a personality, perfect for the passionless husk of a human soul in your life!
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Lettuce eat lettuce ( @Lettuceeatlettuce@lemmy.ml ) 4•11 months agoLol! Everything in moderation I suppose. But at least if I had that interaction with somebody, I would have an interesting story to tell people haha.
Ubettawerk ( @Ubettawerk@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) English3•11 months agoI’m actually pretty enthusiastic about psyllium husk supplements so you have my attention!
Elise ( @xilliah@beehaw.org ) 1•11 months agoIt’s from China. Wallpaper I mean.
Yes I looked it up. Your joke made me cry.
- argv_minus_one ( @argv_minus_one@beehaw.org ) 36•11 months ago
Authorship of open-source GPU drivers.
somegeek ( @somegeek@programming.dev ) 5•11 months agoAh. The dream wife of all geeks
Rottcodd ( @Rottcodd@lemmy.ninja ) English24•11 months agoTo borrow the new age term, an old soul.
There are just people who possess a sort of cynically detached understanding of the world and people. They aren’t fired by largely pointless passion or desire, they’re intelligent and perceptive enough to generally understand things and emotionally mature enough to generally accept them and they have a way of just sort of gliding through life, maintaining a relatively even keel instead of getting distracted and disconcerted by irrelevancies.
Every single person I’ve ever known who was like that has been or is special to me.
Quatity_Control ( @Quatity_Control@lemm.ee ) 18•11 months agoConfidence
Dr. Wesker ( @wesker@lemmy.sdf.org ) English15•11 months agoA rich family.
queermunist she/her ( @queermunist@lemmy.ml ) 14•11 months agoConsent 😎
meyotch ( @meyotch@slrpnk.net ) 1•11 months agoOk!
queermunist she/her ( @queermunist@lemmy.ml ) 4•11 months agooh fk 🥵
Elise ( @xilliah@beehaw.org ) 12•11 months agoCompassion
trufax ( @trufax@beehaw.org ) 10•11 months agoSurprised good sense of humor or wit aren’t on here yet. Playfully sparring with someone or laughing until it hurts when you hang around a person are a turn on.
DeltaTangoLima ( @DeltaTangoLima@reddrefuge.com ) English10•11 months agoSomeone who doesn’t impose their will, beliefs, or anything else on another person.
My ex wife worked very hard at changing me, until I barely recognised who I was. My now wife let me be myself again, and I will forever lover her for that.
magnetosphere ( @HappyMeatbag@beehaw.org ) 10•11 months agoA good sense of humor.
alex [they, il] ( @alex@jlai.lu ) 9•11 months agoCan make smart and educated jokes. Will laugh at fart jokes.
Lem Jukes ( @Lemjukes@lemm.ee ) 8•11 months agoThe most attractive quality a person can have is being into me.