Remy Rose ( @MxRemy@lemmy.one ) English42•11 months agolack of curiosity
swan_pr ( @swan_pr@lemmy.ca ) 14•11 months agoThat’s a big one. Also lack of hobbies or passions.
PaleRider ( @Palerider@feddit.uk ) 41•11 months agoBeing “vetted” by them…
CanadaPlus ( @CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org ) 20•11 months agoMaybe you don’t like the wording, but everyone does this. Unless you know if someone will be a close friend the moment you lay eyes on them, or are friends with literally everyone you’ve spent time with.
Riker_Maneuver ( @Riker_Maneuver@startrek.website ) English4•11 months agoFor real this seems like a major red flag.
richieadler ( @richieadler@lemmy.myserv.one ) English33•11 months ago- Serious belief in pseudosciences
- Conspiracy theorist
- Right-wing ideology
- Sex prude
silvercove ( @silvercove@lemdro.id ) 32•11 months ago- Belief in nonsense, such as astrology
- Celebrity worship
- Excessive social media usage, especially Twitter
Ben Hur Horse Race ( @JudahBenHur@lemm.ee ) 7•11 months agoyou’re on lemmy
bomberesque1 ( @bomberesque1@lemm.ee ) 23•11 months agoThat they vetted me
green_witch ( @green_witch@beehaw.org ) English18•11 months agoAnyone who dislikes animals.
DirigibleProtein ( @DirigibleProtein@aussie.zone ) 17•11 months agoInability to follow instructions. Lack of problem solving skills. No common sense.
Hazzia ( @Hazzia@discuss.tchncs.de ) 3•11 months agoHonestly though, this big for me as well. I didn’t used to think I would care - not everybody has the same skills and all that - until I met someone failing all 3 categories. Unfortunately he’s also my coworker and I have to run clean up on basically everything he does. He has worked there 3 years now and still messes up on the same, most basic stuff I’ve walked him through countless times before. It’s exhausting when they make no progress and you’re being held personally responsible for their growth and improvement.
riley0 ( @riley0@lemmy.dbzer0.com ) 16•11 months agoSomeone who identifies very closely with hustle & grind culture. Someone who claims a personal brand. Someone who kisses up and kicks down.
nothacking ( @nothacking@discuss.tchncs.de ) 9•11 months agoRefusing to participate in a civil discussion, but instead resorting to ad hominem (attacking the person not the argument) or refusing to consider the other sides argument. If they do this any minor dispute will escalate to a flame war.
Hadriscus ( @Hadriscus@lemm.ee ) 6•11 months agoYou probably got machine-corrected, that’s ad hominem. But yes, not being able to handle an argument healthily is a big handicap in life
nothacking ( @nothacking@discuss.tchncs.de ) 2•11 months agoThanks!
redballooon ( @redballooon@lemm.ee ) 8•11 months agoDoesn’t speak a language I know.
Dee ( @Dee@lemmings.world ) 7•11 months agoUnimpactful trait? I’d say if they put the toilet paper the wrong way, if you have to ask which way is the right way we can’t be friends. Also if they don’t return the shopping cart, instant way for me to lose respect for you.
Hazzia ( @Hazzia@discuss.tchncs.de ) 4•11 months agoI read somewhere that apparently lefties aren’t as susceptible to knowing which toilet paper direction is objectively correct.
So it’s basically like one of those mini-disabilities, like being horrible with directions, or not being able to remember peoples’ names. Go easy on the poor fellows, they can’t help it.
AlternateRoute ( @AlternateRoute@lemmy.ca ) English4•11 months agoOddly enough your rigity on this is why we could not be friends.
OceanSoap ( @OceanSoap@lemmy.ml ) 6•11 months agoHow they treat people who disagree with them politically. If they immediately hate/cut off people for political disagreements, we’re not going to be friends any deeper than surface level.
chumbaz ( @chumbaz@lemmy.ml ) 2•11 months agoIf they talk bad about other people, especially if you don’t know the would-be friend very well. If they’ll bad mouth other people to you they’re gonna bad mouth you to other people.