It’s very fine if you don’t know, and correct the deadnaming as soon as you know. It’s less fine, if you, like some others did, lie about what I told you to do, and whine that I “would remove all [your] posts”; to then proceed to entirely remove her previous name, and replace that with a rent directed at me…
Gonna raise a practical consideration here and point out that almost nobody knows who that second name is. Not everybody is 2,000 yards deep in the Linus Cinematic Universe. For the record I wish this person the best and liked most of the content featuring said person.
You’re correct that that’s something to be considered, and there are different approaches to that that can be debated, but just keeping on using the deadname without recognizing the new name at all is not a solution. You also wouldn’t keep referring to newly wed people by their old last name just because nobody yet knows their new name.
Edit: also, your repeated use of “this person” in your comment has transphobic vibes to it. In this comment thread nobody is going to be confused anymore who Emily is, so there is literally no reason to not just use her name. Makes it seem like you’re just trying to avoid using her name for some reason.
That’s fair enough, but it would have been way better in that case to use the correct name, and adding a reference in parenthesis or something for those who are not yet up to date, rather than using only the deadname.
The person formerly known as Anthony goes by Emily now, let’s try and not use deadnames :)
Yes, that’s been a problem across this post (and some others). People do not want to call her Emily…
Not everybody is up to date with what happens to every employee at LTT. I had no idea she now went by Emily.
It’s very fine if you don’t know, and correct the deadnaming as soon as you know. It’s less fine, if you, like some others did, lie about what I told you to do, and whine that I “would remove all [your] posts”; to then proceed to entirely remove her previous name, and replace that with a rent directed at me…
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Gonna raise a practical consideration here and point out that almost nobody knows who that second name is. Not everybody is 2,000 yards deep in the Linus Cinematic Universe. For the record I wish this person the best and liked most of the content featuring said person.
See my comment here: https://feddit.de/comment/2250211
You’re correct that that’s something to be considered, and there are different approaches to that that can be debated, but just keeping on using the deadname without recognizing the new name at all is not a solution. You also wouldn’t keep referring to newly wed people by their old last name just because nobody yet knows their new name.
Edit: also, your repeated use of “this person” in your comment has transphobic vibes to it. In this comment thread nobody is going to be confused anymore who Emily is, so there is literally no reason to not just use her name. Makes it seem like you’re just trying to avoid using her name for some reason.
I think he knows. But only writing Emily could also confuse some people who werr unaware
That’s fair enough, but it would have been way better in that case to use the correct name, and adding a reference in parenthesis or something for those who are not yet up to date, rather than using only the deadname.