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Cake day: March 12th, 2026

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  • I understand some of the words you used 🥹 but I did understand that the dosage makes the poison. Small amount okay, lots bad. I didn’t know we had any sort of equipment in our pre boobies.

    I am personally considering DIY but I know my wife is even more cautious than I am in that regards. I am a bit of a chicken if you want so. If you want you could enlighten me because I have no idea how to go about it. I have looked at some things online but I don’t know if the stuff can be trusted. Either here or in the PM’s is fine for me. I am supposed to be sleeping right now so I might take a bit to replay (assuming I fall asleep anytime soon)







  • A hug or even a small-scale cuddle, I would not count towards cheating within a relationship.

    I cuddle and hug friends all the time and so does my wife with hers. Sometimes we just need to hug and feel some physical closeness with those around us and that is okay. Your friends can judge if a long hug or short cuddle is pushing their boundaries for themselves, don’t close that door too eagerly.

    Get the hugs where you can get them!





  • I grew up in Germany and we were taught to never say or think right leaning things because of our history. Social scrutiny was no joke, the first time we had a public viewing for football made a lot of people uncomfortable with all those Germany flags and national pride.

    Over time this changed, the topics of the right are not scrutinised as much anymore, when a political party can say these things so can you. Especially if old parties (looking at you CDU) pick up the right wingers talking points.

    Being patriotic became less weird too and we have a good doseage of misinformation further dividing the nation.

    A friends mother now proudly votes AfD, 20 years ago she would have whooped our asses for having the parties opinions.



  • The best I can do is give you my example I use when I try to explain my feelings regarding bottom surgery.

    Once I was given a blue pen, didn’t ask for it but I enjoyed drawing water, the sky and many other things. I always fancied having a red pen though, so I can draw the sunset, fire and roses. I don’t hate the blue pen, it’s been great but if I could choose I’d have the red pen any day.

    I feel mostly annoyed about my parts because they get in the way… I just can’t wear what I want without extra steps and a constant feeling of bulging ಠ_ಠ

    In regards to the costs, how much is it in your country? I have no concept of costs because in my place the health insurance would cover the costs if I ever were to get it (if I have a paper from my psychologist saying the op is required or recommended).

    In other TMI news: I think it patience and introspective is what will get you the furthest. I tried anal, the differences in enjoyment proper prep makes is - at least for me - staggering. Which I only bring up because sometimes we don’t do a thing because it wasn’t perfect the first time. Some things require practice/experience.