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Cake day: July 12th, 2025

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  • When I started out I looked up plants on The Spruce and got tips from there. My first battle was moldy soil, but adding in some things to make it more airy eliminated that problem (I use 1:1:1 soil, pumice, and orchid bark these days).

    I got a lot of tips from Reddit before I left with the whole API debacle. Honestly these days I just use Planta (phone app) and water/fertilize every week or two (or 3 or 4 if I’m feeling really lazy) depending on if the soil feels dry and Planta says it’s time.











  • I’ve actually had people be less pushy about it once I hit my 30’s. Though I still get the occasional “why not?” and “what if your husband changes his mind?” when they ask if I have children. Which is honeslty pretty crazy to me, what if it wasn’t by choice (it is) and now you’re asking “why not?” to someone who wants them but for whatever reason can’t have them.

    I’m fortunate enough that my parents and in-laws both don’t bother us about it. They’d love grandkids but know we won’t be having any. The pressure mostly came from coworkers in my 20’s where they’d say “You’ll change your mind” and dismiss my opinions.






  • I’ll give it another episode or two but this show may be a drop for me. The protagonist is so whiney and impulsive. Like you know this lady controls water, so why not stay away from the massive tub of water when you’re about to invade her place?

    Why not wait with the prince who has very reasonably said to wait for the right moment?

    Why are you executing the kid when the only 3 people involved don’t want him to die? Just don’t tell anyone it happened?

    Why is the prince not telling the protagonist his reasons for keeping her nearby?

    So many questions… Maybe it’ll be my love to hate show this season, though there’s a couple contenders right now. I need to go back to Polar Opposites, at least they can communicate effectively :P