🐝bownage [they/he]

✨ 👋 Dutch queer person (they/he) | I like taking to people online

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Cake day: June 8th, 2023

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  • Me and my wife hosted new years eve with friends, was a lot of fun but holy fuck I’m tired. Gonna try to make the most of the rest of the week.

    There’s a family event on Saturday that I’m really not looking forward to. Meeting relatives you never talk to etc. It’s been mentally draining me so much, I don’t think I should go, if only for mental health reasons. But it’s hard to cancel on them because I feel guilty for never seeing them… So the cycle continues.




  • Going through the holiday motions until I finally get some time for myself.

    I’m making a dessert for dinner at my parents today, gonna try to not address any of the family drama or instigate more of it. Although I’m sure the others wouldn’t describe it as drama but rather ‘just how we talk to each other’. Anyway, day after will be dinner at my wife’s dad which is luckily always comfy and unproblematic.

    Then finally time to rest 😴