Save you a click: It’s two glass bottles full of cherries that some sludge got into, likely preserved for baking.

That’s a bit of a tough set of questions because the only one who can answer them is, well, you.

Think of it this way. Let’s say your fiancé woke up tomorrow as a beautiful woman. Would you love her as much as now? Would you be willing to do all the things you do together now? Does the idea of that give you the ick, or does it sound pretty darn great? Have you ever looked at another woman and thought the kind of things you think about your fiancé?

That’s maybe a good way to start, and if you feel comfortable with it try making friends with women who like women. If nothing else you’ll have friends with perspectives you wouldn’t otherwise have encountered.

Good luck!

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People might assume that sure, but you can also always add more context and clarify if you want. It’s always up to you what you want to share about yourself. There’s also a lot of overlap between transfem experiences and other groups, it’s not like one group has a monopoly on everything they experience. Plenty of cis women wear thigh highs, for example, and some cis men even.

The trans flag is cute! i like it a bunch too.

I mean, labels are all shorthand for others to understand your lived experience, yeah? Some people who are non-binary call themselves trans, some don’t, and both groups are equally valid. Some people who are non-binary live comfortably with the same gender presentation as what they got assigned at birth, and that’s just as valid. Ditto for binary people, trans or otherwise.

Who you are inside you is what’s important, the rest is just stuff to help others get an idea of it if/when you choose to share.