I’m so fuckin happy rn. Gonna go shopping a bit more tomorrow I think. I took Elise’s advice and ended up going to a fetish shop, ended up only buying some stocking but I feel like I need more lmao. Did look around the city to see if any shops would kind of fit the bill (LGBTQ+ friendly, drag) but everything else was so public facing and I’m definitely not ready for that. I also checked local LGBTQ+ alliance page websites and there wasn’t anything listed in my city.


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The biggest thing I have to do in the next little while is find a way to commit to some lgbtq groups / people generally. Idk how to explain it, I’m just pretty stuck right now.
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thank you, honestly helps so much.
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Chica, you sound so much like me right now! Are you me?
Let’s go girl! We can do this!
Let’s goooo!
Seriously though, I already didn’t know how to meet people, and now the pool of people I want to meet got even smaller. I find support groups, but I’d like to meet more people who aren’t in the initial struggle stage you know?
Totally get that. Hard to explain but I feel like I might lost my connection I had to anything locally.
I had not even considered finding other lgbt+ to shop with(probably a testament to my isolation), and have never heard of extra secret changing rooms. This has been some enlightening advice!
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