10 days ago mod
Unbanned the_q ( the_q@piefed.social ) from the community reason: Removed ban after DM conversation and apology
11 days ago mod
Removed Post 20 #Tokyo #Online - hopeless romantic hacker girl who'll fly you to me :3 (or fly to you) 💜 reason: not appropriate for the community. also suspicious
11 days ago mod
Removed Comment 
Weird how many new accounts are posting stuff about how bad the Democrats are in the last weeks up to a critical election. Don't get me wrong: Josh and those other DINOs can get fucked.
But I just saw this "guy" over on dbzer0.com absolutely spamming divisive, inflammatory shit too.
This feels *strangely familiar* to 2016 and 2020 ... but *I'm sure* it's just a coincidence and these are totally real people with no agenda what-so-ever. by oatscoop ( oatscoop@midwest.social ) reason: Not the community for this, disrupting the safety of the space for transfeminine people
11 days ago mod
Removed Comment Just don't play sports and you'll be fine. by the_q ( the_q@piefed.social ) reason: Transphobia
11 days ago mod
Banned the_q ( the_q@piefed.social ) from the community reason: Phobe
30 days ago mod
Banned selokichtli ( selokichtli@lemmy.ml ) from the community reason: defending rapists, victim blaming
1 month ago mod
Removed Comment So, just to be clear, we live in a fascist state. Women, queer folks, and poc are having more and more rights stripped away every day. Coupled with that, a random trans woman in a two year relationship moved to an extremely transphobic state where every day comes with risk with her partner who proceeded to dump her over text and leave her with no money and no support group. But oh my god I said bitch how could I. Do you hear how stupid you sound. Please put this energy to something that actually matters.
Edit: and, to add, you could have seen the post and moved on. Instead you decided to come into this thread to admonish me, a random Internet stranger. You are not the arbiter of my grief. Get over yourself and move on. by WitchKnight ( WitchKnight@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) reason: Unnecessarily pointed language. I get this was said out of frustration, but I do think it was a bit much
1 month ago mod
Banned kibblebits ( kibblebits@quokk.au ) from the community reason: Way too many red flags in the mod log
1 month ago mod
Removed Post Dead inside reason: Offtopic, spam
1 month ago mod
Banned Tollana1234567 ( Tollana1234567@lemmy.today ) from the community reason: Bigot
1 month ago mod
Removed Comment It’s the World Cup Final, and a man makes his way to his seat right next to the pitch. He sits down, noticing that the seat next to him is empty. He leans over and asks the guy on the other side of the empty seat if someone will be sitting there. The guy shakes his head and says, “No. The seat’s empty.” The man can’t believe what he’s hearing. “Who in their right mind would have a seat like this for the Final and not use it?” The other guy says, “Well, actually, the seat belongs to me. I was supposed to come with my wife, but she passed away. This will be the first World Cup Final we haven’t been to together since we got married.” The man says, “I’m so sorry to hear that, buddy. That’s terrible… But couldn’t you find someone else to come with you? A friend, a relative, or even a neighbor to take her seat?” The man shakes his head. “No,” he says. “They’re all at the funeral.” by HumanOnEarth ( HumanOnEarth@lemmy.ca ) reason: Deleted by mod
1 month ago mod
Removed Comment The world's leading expert on European wasps walks into a record shop. He asks the assistant, “Do you have European Vespidae Acoustics Volume 2? I believe it was released this week.” The assistant checks the computer and then says, “Certainly. Would you like to listen before you buy it?” The expert replies, “Of course!” The assistant hands him a pair of earphones and puts the record on a turntable near the counter, and turns it on. The expert listens for a few moments and says to the assistant, “I'm terribly sorry, but I am the world's leading expert on European wasps and this is not accurate at all. I don't recognize any of those sounds. Are you sure this is the correct recording?” The assistant checks the turntable. “Yes, sir,” he says. “This is the European Vespidae Acoustics Volume 2. Let me skip ahead to the second track.” Again the expert listens for a few moments and then says to the assistant, “This just can't be right! I've been an expert in this field for 43 years and I still don't recognize any of these sounds.” The assistant apologizes and lifts the needle to the next track. As soon as the track starts playing, the expert throws off the headphones. “This is outrageous false advertising! I am the world's leading expert on European wasps and no European wasp has ever made a sound like the ones on this record!” The manager of the shop overhears the commotion and walks over. “What seems to be the problem, sir?” The expert turns to him, red-faced and fuming. “This is an outrage! I am the world's leading expert on European wasps. Nobody knows more about them than I do. There is no way in hell that the sounds on that record were made by European wasps!” The manager glances down and notices the problem instantly. “I'm terribly sorry, sir. It appears we've been playing you the bee side.” by HumanOnEarth ( HumanOnEarth@lemmy.ca ) reason: Offtopic
2 months ago mod
Removed Post Goodbye reason: Disruptive of the safety of the space, not rules breaking per se but goes against the ethos of the community.
2 months ago mod
Banned antianarchist ( antianarchist@sopuli.xyz ) deleted by creator from the community reason: Phobe
2 months ago mod
Banned arak ( arak@lemmy.today ) from the community reason: Repeated slurs
2 months ago mod
Removed Post hey guys selling nsfw content dm me! reason: Wrong community, this is a supportive community for transfem people and experiences. There's nothing wrong with this post inherently, it's just off topic and does not fit the purpose of this community.
3 months ago mod
Banned tlekiteki ( tlekiteki@lemmy.dbzer0.com ) from the community reason: History of racism and transphobia
3 months ago mod
Banned Anystar ( Anystar@thelemmy.club ) from the community reason: Spammer
3 months ago mod
Removed Comment
::: spoiler cw: NSFW, hornytalk
very fuckable
(i hope i don't get banned for this)
:::
by gandalf_der_13te ( gandalf_der_13te@feddit.org ) reason: Unasked for sexual advance
3 months ago mod
Banned cub Gucci ( vivalapivo@lemmy.today ) from the community reason: bigot
3 months ago mod
Removed Post *Permanently Deleted* reason: Gatekeeping
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Banned sidalsolgun ( sidalsolgun@lemmy.ca ) deleted by creator from the community reason: Gatekeeping/transmed
3 months ago mod
Removed Post *Permanently Deleted* reason: Gatekeeping
3 months ago mod
Removed Comment *Permanently Deleted* by sidalsolgun ( sidalsolgun@lemmy.ca ) deleted by creator reason: Disrupting the safety of the space for trans people, misgendering isnt okay even if youve never taken HRT.
3 months ago mod
Removed Post *Permanently Deleted* reason: Transmedicalism is against the rules of this community. Bringing it up again will result in a ban.
4 months ago mod
Removed Comment Might be bottom dysphoria if ur pre-op by алсааас [she/her] ( alsaaas@lemmy.dbzer0.com ) reason: Transmed
4 months ago mod
Banned алсааас [she/her] ( alsaaas@lemmy.dbzer0.com ) from the community reason: Transmed
4 months ago mod
Removed Post *Permanently Deleted* reason: Off-Topic
4 months ago mod
Banned whoisearth ( whoisearth@lemmy.ca ) from the community reason: transphobe
5 months ago mod
Appointed Jorunn (she/her) ( will_steal_your_username@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) as a mod to the community 6 months ago mod
Locked Post Why some trans women defend men so much? 6 months ago mod
Removed Comment This might sound harsh, but I say it with as much love and support as possible from a stranger on Lemmy.
You need to get your head out of your ass. A quick fly-over of your post/comment history show a self-absorded, self-victimizing egoistic child. You do not take responsibility for your mistakes, and instead blame your neuro-divergence, and/or gender identity troubles for your shortcomings.
In my experience, people who have absolutely no one are directly responsible for their situation and have been pushing people away for years. Depression will do that to some. I'll tell you a secret tho... The people who love you will always find a way to forgive when faced with someone who truly wants to be forgiven. Love and close relationships are hard work and demand humility, and vulnerability.
Trying to blame your neglectful childhood for being an inconsiderate roommate is just childish. Just get the fuck up, and respect the fact that you are living with other people. No therapist is going to magically turn you into a decent cohabitant.
Therapy isn't going to help you if you constantly lie to yourself. Meds without good therapy is only going to delay, slow the mental decay, but will not solve it. There is so much that should be done by you before spending thousands of dollars.
You have a car, and some money. You have access to mental health care. You are already doing better than hundreds of millions of people!
You might have lost a roof, but the situation you were in sounds very unhealthy. What was so important about it?
I think you need to ask yourself what is it you truly want. Then you will be able to start thinking about what you can actually do in order to get there.
Edit: Please, understand that this is coming from a place of love, and that I am not aware of your whole situation. I just saw that you are also physically limited, and so might have been a bit too harsh. If you would like to talk, please DM me !
by TediousLength ( TediousLength@lemmy.ca ) reason: Deleted by mod: That crosses a line
6 months ago mod
Removed Post *Permanently Deleted* reason: Off topic
6 months ago mod
Removed Post *Permanently Deleted* reason: Bigoted content, language from transphobic communities, misinformation, disrupting the safety of the space for transfeminine people
6 months ago mod
Banned Jessica ( SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) from the community reason: Disrupting the safety of the space for trans people
expires: 6 months ago
6 months ago mod
Removed Comment Back that up with facts and figures. by Jessica ( SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) reason: misinformation regarding hrt
6 months ago mod
Removed Comment I feel like I am taking crazy pills. The standards of care for trans youth are clear. Minors should not be on HRT.
Puberty blockers, social transition, mental health support. by Jessica ( SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) reason: misinformation regarding hrt
6 months ago mod
Removed Comment A young person who has never had HRT before should probably not do it DIY to begin. Please don’t just go out and do it. by Jessica ( SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) reason: false information
6 months ago mod
Removed Comment Not for everyone. Let the professionals help the youth navigate through the experience. If they deem it necessary, then they should be the ones recommending HRT. by Jessica ( SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) reason: false information
6 months ago mod
Removed Comment In what way could this possibly be harmful? by Jessica ( SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) reason: false information
6 months ago mod
Removed Comment This is insane. Doctors need to be involved when one is on HRT. DIY should be a last resort. by Jessica ( SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) reason: false information
6 months ago mod
Removed Comment Back that up with data. by Jessica ( SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) reason: false information
6 months ago mod
Removed Comment Puberty blockers, social transition (name, hair, clothes, etc), as well as a lot of support is what the professionals recommend. There are studies that back this stuff up, that are pretty easy to find via google.
Once they become legally an adult at 18, then depending upon where they live, they might be able to get informed consent to start them on their journey with hormones. by Jessica ( SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) reason: false information
6 months ago mod
Removed Comment Pedantry. I will clarify (just for you): Under 18’s should not be on hormone replacement therapy. Better? by Jessica ( SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) reason: false information
6 months ago mod
Removed Comment Australia has informed consent available for HRT. Just gotta be 18. You really need to wait. Under 18’s should not be on hormones anyway. by Jessica ( SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) reason: false information
6 months ago mod
Removed Comment Yes. Kids should not be on HRT. This is not a controversial take. It is based in science. Read the studies. There are standards of care. Reading up on it does not replace involving medical experts. by Jessica ( SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) reason: false information
7 months ago mod
Banned Bazell ( Bazell@lemmy.zip ) from the community reason: upvoted transphobic comment "teach kids to change gears not genders"
7 months ago mod
Banned OwOarchist ( OwOarchist@pawb.social ) from the community reason: Encouraging suicidal poster to suicide
7 months ago mod
Banned DavidDoesLemmy ( DavidDoesLemmy@aussie.zone ) from the community reason: Transphobia
7 months ago mod
Banned Draconic NEO ( DraconicNEO@quokk.au ) Banned from the community reason: abuse
8 months ago mod
Banned MentalEdge ( MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz ) from the community reason: Has posted sexually suggestive images of teen anime characters on multiple occasions.
8 months ago mod
Removed Post Data Finds Republicans are Obsessed with Searching for Transgender Porn reason: Off topic, falls under reposting bigoted content, the last thing this community should be doing is making people feel more fetishized than theyre already made to feel
8 months ago mod
Banned Zwiebel ( Zwiebel@feddit.org ) from the community reason: pedophilia
8 months ago mod
Unlocked Post [CW: Mentions Suicide, Surgery regret] How to get over regret about bottom surgery without killing myself? 8 months ago mod
Locked Post [CW: Mentions Suicide, Surgery regret] How to get over regret about bottom surgery without killing myself? 9 months ago mod
Locked Post Hi. Anyone have any info on DIY specific to the uk? 9 months ago mod
Unlocked Post Hi. Anyone have any info on DIY specific to the uk? 9 months ago mod
Locked Post Hi. Anyone have any info on DIY specific to the uk? 9 months ago mod
Locked Post Cis-female wanting to start HRT 9 months ago mod
Removed Post How can I help support someone who is sad/dysphoric about having lost all their hair reason: Troll
9 months ago mod
Removed Post I'm a trans girl!! reason: Troll account
1 year ago mod
Removed Post I like to apply lube like a condiment on a hotdog reason: No NSFW image posts please
1 year ago mod
Removed Post I like to apply lube like condiment on a hot dog reason: No NSFW image posts
1 year ago mod
Locked Post Remove Nutomic from Lemmy development for transphobia - Change.org 1 year ago mod
Unlocked Post how do you answer "when was your last period" at the doctors? 1 year ago mod
Locked Post how do you answer "when was your last period" at the doctors? 1 year ago mod
Appointed Ada ( ada@piefed.blahaj.zone ) as a mod to the community 2 years ago mod
Removed Post Question - How to use fiber for anal sex? reason: no NSFW image posts
2 years ago mod
Removed Post My gf says I'm transphobic. reason: "Hons" is a transphobic slur
3 years ago mod
Removed Post *Permanently Deleted* reason: Duplicate
3 years ago mod
Removed Post Urgent: Forwarded from my Trans Friend who requires immediate financial assistance. reason: Needs verification
3 years ago mod
Appointed Ada ( ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) as a mod to the community 3 years ago mod
Unfeatured Post New resources added to the sidebar. Please let me know of any others you believe should be listed and I will consider them. in community 3 years ago mod
Unfeatured Post I decided to make a poll to decide the name of the community going forward. Consensus seems to be "Transfem" but I figured I'd let people weigh in. in community 
