What words, phrases or signs do you use and how do you get your partner’s attention?

  • Yup, we’re only at 12, but a look is enough, we’re usually thinking the same thing.

    But the other additional one, three squeezes, hands, or whatever can be touched without being obvious, is I love you. Seems sweet, but most often used when one of us is getting pissed off (at something/someone else, not each other).