Who cares about red flags in people. What are your green flags Ilflish ( @Ilflish@lemm.ee ) Asklemmy@lemmy.ml • 8 months ago message-square139fedilinkarrow-up1158
arrow-up1158message-squareWho cares about red flags in people. What are your green flags Ilflish ( @Ilflish@lemm.ee ) Asklemmy@lemmy.ml • 8 months ago message-square139fedilink
minus-square jet ( @jet@hackertalks.com ) linkfedilinkEnglish60•8 months agoThey are happy to see you! They handle stress and disappointment well. They don’t externalize their frustrations, and take responsibility for solving their own problems. They act like a functioning adult. They have interests and hobbies that they are happy to do alone, or share. Unfair - but they don’t have intense money, drug, social pressure in their life, a stable situation is the good grounds for relationships bonus: If their parents are attractive, then they could be a good partner who ages gracefully with you
minus-square tetris11 ( @tetris11@lemmy.ml ) linkfedilink39•8 months agoThat bonus really looked like it was going somewhere else for a second there.
minus-square LastYearsPumpkin ( @LastYearsPumpkin@feddit.ch ) linkfedilinkEnglish25•8 months agobonus: if their parents are attractive, you have a potential thruple opportunity to fall back on if the relationship sours.
They are happy to see you!
They handle stress and disappointment well.
They don’t externalize their frustrations, and take responsibility for solving their own problems. They act like a functioning adult.
They have interests and hobbies that they are happy to do alone, or share.
Unfair - but they don’t have intense money, drug, social pressure in their life, a stable situation is the good grounds for relationships
bonus: If their parents are attractive, then they could be a good partner who ages gracefully with you
That bonus really looked like it was going somewhere else for a second there.
bonus: if their parents are attractive, you have a potential thruple opportunity to fall back on if the relationship sours.