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 Ilflish   ( @Ilflish@lemm.ee )  to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 2 years ago

Who cares about red flags in people. What are your green flags

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Who cares about red flags in people. What are your green flags

 Ilflish   ( @Ilflish@lemm.ee )  to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 2 years ago
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    •  mke_geek   ( @mke_geek@lemm.ee ) 
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      It’s like art, you know it when you see it.

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      You don’t measure it. You compare it to your own intelligence and see if it matches.

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      Excellent question. For me, it has a lot to do with their sense of humor, general outlook, and their problem solving. ymmv

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      When they say it. If somebody says “I’m very smart” or “I’m very intelligent”, you know the answer.

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        but what is the question?

        •  TheGreenGolem   ( @TheGreenGolem@lemm.ee ) 
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          Exactly!

    •  Anna   ( @AnnaFrankfurter@lemmy.ml ) 
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      Have you heard about IQ Test.

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        The flawed metric racists use to claim they are somehow superior?

        There is a reason why it isn’t standard practice and only covers certain topics. It can measure some general knowledge, but is in no way indictment to the actual intelligence of a person.

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          Yes I know the origins of IQ Tests and how it was used for justifying eugenics in USA and how Hitler got inspired by it. But I ment it as a joke to the original comment asking how to measure intelligence. And anyway who believes in a number on piece of paper we all only believe in how much upvotes we can get on Lemmy.

      •  shiveyarbles   ( @shiveyarbles@beehaw.org ) 
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        No that’s dumb

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        somebody talking about their IQ would be a major red flag for me lol

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          Is it OK if they mention that their IQ is less than 0 Kelvin.

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      •  homicidalrobot   ( @homicidalrobot@lemm.ee ) 
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        Have YOU been on the mensa forums?

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          I’m theoretically Mensa qualified but when I met some I turned away. My sense of what’s fun and creative did not align. At all.

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