Whoa, you either absolutely misinterpeted my comments or are putting a lot into my mouth that I’ve never said. Where have I attacked, insulted or went after cis men specifically. Sure, in my initial statement that beehaw has removed and that I already flagged as being over the top and sarcastic in another comment. Where have I said that men are the enemy? I would 100% welcome cis men to my life if they treated me and others better. I’ve just over and over made bad experiences and have been let down by most cis men I’ve trusted. And I still have some friends that are cis men. I actually very much care for them, I’ve been in groups of mostly men that critically discuss masculinity and I very much see the problems and pain that patriarchy is causing men, too. But the thing is that just the vast majority of cis men is in a position where they are not up to really help in their and everyone’s emancipation, share their privileges, reflect their own role and fight systemic sexism. So long cis men are not up for that, I will be very weary of them.
I really don’t appreciate your way of framing me as a bad actor. You have repeatedly misinterpreted my words, you did not even to bother to say something about how reverse sexism doesn’t work (do you think that about reverse racism also??) and you seem to forget that most of my comments were regarding abusive behavior by cis men I myself experienced either targeting me or people around me. So do you believe me that happened or you rather ignore this, too? Because that js just reality, that cis men are statistically speaking the vast majority of abusers (although I would never speak of “men = abusers”, because that would indeed be misandry, would be false and make things worse for everyone).
I think your way of talking to me is a great example of a cis man trying to mansplain sexism to me. You don’t experience it so you don’t get to explain me the discrimination I face. I think you are way out of line here and would appreciate it, if someone would step up and say something.
Whoa, you either absolutely misinterpeted my comments or are putting a lot into my mouth that I’ve never said. Where have I attacked, insulted or went after cis men specifically. Sure, in my initial statement that beehaw has removed and that I already flagged as being over the top and sarcastic in another comment. Where have I said that men are the enemy? I would 100% welcome cis men to my life if they treated me and others better. I’ve just over and over made bad experiences and have been let down by most cis men I’ve trusted. And I still have some friends that are cis men. I actually very much care for them, I’ve been in groups of mostly men that critically discuss masculinity and I very much see the problems and pain that patriarchy is causing men, too. But the thing is that just the vast majority of cis men is in a position where they are not up to really help in their and everyone’s emancipation, share their privileges, reflect their own role and fight systemic sexism. So long cis men are not up for that, I will be very weary of them.
I really don’t appreciate your way of framing me as a bad actor. You have repeatedly misinterpreted my words, you did not even to bother to say something about how reverse sexism doesn’t work (do you think that about reverse racism also??) and you seem to forget that most of my comments were regarding abusive behavior by cis men I myself experienced either targeting me or people around me. So do you believe me that happened or you rather ignore this, too? Because that js just reality, that cis men are statistically speaking the vast majority of abusers (although I would never speak of “men = abusers”, because that would indeed be misandry, would be false and make things worse for everyone).
I think your way of talking to me is a great example of a cis man trying to mansplain sexism to me. You don’t experience it so you don’t get to explain me the discrimination I face. I think you are way out of line here and would appreciate it, if someone would step up and say something.