I think you should consider replacing “straight people” with perhaps “insensitive people”. As a straight person and father of a 3 years old girl. I hear comments, mostly from older women, about my daughter having a little boyfriend whenever she plays with a boy her age. It’s ridiculous and in my opinion problematic because it sexualizes friendship and play between toddlers. This is not a straight person problem, it’s a generational problem. This is how cultural norms change and we should have compassion and empathy when calling out these dated view points but avoid generalized blame.