If you don’t value it in your life, that’s fine. But its also fine for other people on lemmy to talk about it if it brings them joy. No reason to participate in love life discussions if you dont care about it, but don’t rain on others’ parade. If you relate to being aro/ace then at least you know what to research about! There’s no rigid guidelines for what counts as being aro/ace anyway, since sexuality is a complex topic.