When you vet someone for whether you can be close friends with them, what's a seemingly unimpactful characteristic about someone that would instantly rule them out as a potential close friend for you? Call me Lenny/Leni ( @shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee ) Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish • 2 years ago message-square24fedilinkarrow-up154
arrow-up154message-squareWhen you vet someone for whether you can be close friends with them, what's a seemingly unimpactful characteristic about someone that would instantly rule them out as a potential close friend for you? Call me Lenny/Leni ( @shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee ) Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish • 2 years ago message-square24fedilink
minus-square CanadaPlus ( @CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org ) linkfedilink20•2 years agoMaybe you don’t like the wording, but everyone does this. Unless you know if someone will be a close friend the moment you lay eyes on them, or are friends with literally everyone you’ve spent time with.
minus-square Riker_Maneuver ( @Riker_Maneuver@startrek.website ) linkfedilinkEnglish4•2 years agoFor real this seems like a major red flag.
Being “vetted” by them…
Maybe you don’t like the wording, but everyone does this. Unless you know if someone will be a close friend the moment you lay eyes on them, or are friends with literally everyone you’ve spent time with.
For real this seems like a major red flag.