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slothrop  ( slothrop@lemmy.ca )  to Memes@sopuli.xyzEnglish · 10 months ago

handling strays

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handling strays

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slothrop  ( slothrop@lemmy.ca )  to Memes@sopuli.xyzEnglish · 10 months ago
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  • Brave Little Hitachi Wand ( yakko@feddit.uk ) 
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    I wish this was my experience. I’ve seen that women look after each other a lot better generally.

    • lumpenproletariat ( Deceptichum@quokk.au ) 
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      That’s been my experience too. Men are very standoffish or happy to be alone, women see another woman alone and want to adopt them like a stray kitten.

    • SuperNovaStar ( SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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      As a trans girl, I can confidently say that I have a much easier time hanging out with girls I just met than I ever had hanging out with guys I just met. Although both do happen and aren’t too uncommon.

      • Brave Little Hitachi Wand ( yakko@feddit.uk ) 
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        It’s cool to have intrepid folks who have crossed that threshold, and can confirm firsthand for us that boys are just not that well socialised. We need to be raising boys to be much kinder and more thoughtful.

      • apotheotic (she/her) ( apotheotic@beehaw.org ) 
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        Trans girl here sharing the same sentiment

    • aeiou ( aeiou@piefed.social ) 
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      I think it depends on age, from what I’d seen older men seem to have a harder time meeting new friends than women

      • LordMayor ( LordMayor@piefed.social ) 
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        I wonder if it’s just a pack mammal thing. Like the way young male lions hang out in groups but the older ones are solitary especially if they have a pride.

        • aeiou ( aeiou@piefed.social ) 
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          can confirm, I am a large lazy cat

  • Dharma Curious (he/him) ( dharmacurious@slrpnk.net ) 
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    Once met a dude in Walmart who had a cat with him. Talked in Walmart, and now he’s one of my best friends.

  • driving_crooner ( driving_crooner@lemmy.eco.br ) 
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    They’re being friends for a year but don’t know their names

    • Gerudo ( Gerudo@lemmy.zip ) 
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      My wife is like this with my newer friends. Where did they grow up? What music do they like? What’s their partner like?

      Lady, calm down, I’ve only known them for a few years now lol. She can meet someone and recite their whole backstory after the 2nd meet-up.

  • SillyDude ( SillyDude@lemmy.zip ) 
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    I was driving up a mountain in my jeep and passed another SUV. They were driving real slow after we passed each other. I stopped, reversed, and asked “you guys smoke weed”. We then took bong rips on the side of the trail for like a hour.

  • village604 ( village604@adultswim.fan ) 
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    I was the random guy at a new year’s party a few years ago. Was hanging with a friend and some of her friends I hadn’t met before when she needed to bounce, then I just ended up going to a random party.

    I got like 3 New years kisses, so I won’t complain.

  • lightnsfw ( lightnsfw@reddthat.com ) 
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    Where’s my Xbox? Oh, the junky Jeff brought over last night stole it.

  • Socialism_Everyday ( Socialism_Everyday@reddthat.com ) Banned
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    Lemmy: your daily dose of misogyny

    • Drew ( crmsnbleyd@sopuli.xyz ) 
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      Not really misogynistic is it, the first is not a bad thing

      • Socialism_Everyday ( Socialism_Everyday@reddthat.com ) Banned
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        The meme format of “Wokaj vs. Chad” implicitly puts the Chad over the Wojak

        • Soulg ( Soulg@ani.social ) 
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          Sounds like you’re doing a lot of projection there bud

          • Socialism_Everyday ( Socialism_Everyday@reddthat.com ) Banned
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            Hmmm, wonder why you’re getting defensive around general accusations of misogyny not particularly directed towards you

            • Jerkface (any/all) ( jerkface@lemmy.ca ) 
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              Removed by mod

              • Socialism_Everyday ( Socialism_Everyday@reddthat.com ) Banned
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                Just a thought-terminating cliche, very popular. It’s one of the words used to shutdown brain function when you read something that shakes cognitive dissonance.

        • SchwertImStein ( SchwertImStein@lemmy.dbzer0.com ) 
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          there are no wojaks here

          • Socialism_Everyday ( Socialism_Everyday@reddthat.com ) Banned
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            First result on “wojak” image search

            • apotheotic (she/her) ( apotheotic@beehaw.org ) 
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              In fairness thats the first result on a “wokaj” search but your point is still good

              • Socialism_Everyday ( Socialism_Everyday@reddthat.com ) Banned
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                Turns out I can’t spell lmao

  • RezDogHonky ( CalloftheDirtyWhiteBoy@lemmy.ca ) 
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    No bro has ever took me off the streets to chill I must have fucked vibes

  • nightlily ( nightlily@leminal.space ) 
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    Oh I see lemmy is not better than reddit with this boomer-style humour. Tell us one about how women and Asians drive next.

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    “And he already told me he’s not a cop.”

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