• I get that it’s hard for you to accept other people’s cultural identities, but that’s no excuse to call it child abuse. The issue here is performing a rather simple procedure without proper training or adherence to basic safety standards.

            • You see? You don’t even know what the procedure is for, and yet you claim some kind of altruism when advocating against it. You have been misled by right-wing propaganda, meant to discriminate against immigrants. Or, you’re just racist and think those people are barbarians for looking out for their children’s well-being in a way you don’t agree with.

              Either way, you calling it “child abuse”, doesn’t mean it is.

                • It always amazes me how ignorant western men are about this subject. No wonder you view men that practice it as if they are barbaric or “lesser-than”. That’s how most bigotry works though…through ignorance.

                  The foreskin is highly susceptible to infection during early childhood. Especially in regions where cleaning the foreskin is not as easy. It’s a perfect example of how a common sense health measure becomes a cultural tradition.

                  I think it’s far more lazy to simply write it off as some kind of barbaric practice, instead of utilizing some critical thinking about why it’s so common.

              • People not from my culture can abuse children.

                They can even, if they’re very very creative/completionist or maybe in a different climate, abuse them in a way the culture I’m from didn’t. Reactionary fetishization of indigeneity is only very slightly better than instinctive condemnation of a thing because it’s unlike you.

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                If this were about “looking out for their children’s well-being,” then wouldn’t they follow the suggestions of doctors and specialists in the field of pediatrics?

              • The cultural institution of pederasty practiced by the noble terf islander civilizations serves to impart a certain stoicism and strength of character to their future leaders. Its a valid cultural practice, and just because you don’t agree with it doesn’t mean it’s wrong.

                That’s what you sound like.

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            The “procedure” you’re referring to is, by definition, genital mutilation. Which is intentionally inflicting trauma on a child. That is child abuse.

            If they were truly able to consent (which is not possible due to power imbalance), then maybe you’d have an argument. Maybe. But the truth is this “procedure” is for the express purpose of forcing puritanical beliefs and lifestyle into another. So, again, its literally child abuse.

            Believing that your religious views override any of this? That’s bigotry.

          • The culture I’m from is mostly fucked up shit.

            Just because it’s traditional does not mean it isn’t fucked up shit. Could I be wrong because I don’t know the context? Totally! But melanin is just color, not inherent fucking virtue. Don’t fetishize other cultures. They could suck as much as yours.

            • Many cultural traditions have practical origins. In climates where water is scarce, cleaning is often more difficult. And given the high likelihood of early childhood infections relating to the foreskin, in many of those cultures you apparently look down on, it is considered common sense to remove it before it becomes a problem.

              • many cultural practices have practical origins

                Yeah. I remember some of the ones practiced on me.

                The practical origins were things like control, degradation, fear. Practical purposes are not always valid or good. Some cultures are fucked up and if everything about them burned it would be an acceptable sacrifice for the amount of bullshit we’re getting rid of.

                early childhood infections

                Okay. But Europe and Asia don’t do this, don’t have a long tradition of this. Do surrounding cultural groups?

                What infections? Infections are well within the realm of academia, we study the shit out of infections, and with cis dudes doing most of the science finding, I think dick infections their causes and their remedies is something I would expect a flood of academic material on.

                look down on

                I don’t assume they’re less than half as depraved tyrannical and shitty as the dumpster fire I fell out of. Sometimes I’m surprised, sometimes I’m not.

                common sense

                Okay but is it? A few of the women in my family, extremely high genetic cancer risk, removed a breast at the drop of a hat, like first hint radical mastectomy being planned instead of any tests, no attempt to save anything. I, not being an insane reactionary defined by a childish trauma response and kind of liking my breasts¹ might take a more measured approach. I can’t help but think these kids, these literal children, are not sufficiently informed for these decisions to be made with the amount of cultural inertia behind them.

                ¹and having anything to lose

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            If you define your cultural identity by the need to unnecessarily mutilate the genitals of children, then your culture is shit and does not deserve respect or acceptance.

            Take a step back and consider what it is you’re defending here.

              • No. The bigotry would be not applying that logic across the board; doing it ICC style.

                You are engaging in a brand of ‘bebevolent’ fetishization of ‘barbaric’ peoples and othering them, applying different values to them than to yourself. This is bigotry, even if it’s not hateful. Its genuinely disgusting.

                I can imagine someone like you defending some of the things that my culture of origin did to me as a child this same way, and I’m white, so you wouldn’t; you’d apply values to me like I’m an actual person, but imagining someone who did? I’d fucking kill them

          • Its a cultural institution to rape children in TERF islander private schools.

            Tell me why this is different, admit you’re a disingenuous lying fuck defending sick shit for made up dogmatic reasons you have no understanding of, or admit you’re a pedophile.

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        So, not mutilating kids’ genitals is…bigotry???

        Fuck no. Like, seriously, your position is factually incorrect. And, frankly, the tone of superiority makes you sound, well, like a fucking bigot.

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        Archangel1313… are you okay? Is everything good? I don’t see how not wanting people to mutilate other people’s genitals is bigotry. Or is this a disingenuous “parents’ rights” argument?

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        So now imagine if that “ritual” never took place-

        if in said imagination, you can see that those boys would still be alive, then I’d say you’re half way there.

        You’ll be all the way there when you are able to come to this conclusion all on your own.

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            Imagine taking a pro-circumcision stance in the comments of an article where 41 boys died as a result of the procedure- all while fully KNOWING that in this day and age, it is a brutal and absolutely unnecessary thing to do begin with.

            Those boys would still be alive if assholes stoped butchering children’s genitalia.

            END OF DEBATE.

            • They died because the procedure was performed far too late in life, by people who were not trained medical professionals, in unsafe conditions.

              Using this as an example of why circumcision is “bad”, is a perfect example of how western white nationalists weaponize tragedy to push their narratives into the mainstream. Don’t be so naive.

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        There are valid reasons for parents to choose circumcision. I’m not sure religion is a part of that, and I’m not sure that it isn’t. For example, if this were female circumcision based strictly on religion or culture, I’d feel very strongly against it, since it’s to curb pleasure and often leads to infection, from bodily fluids not being able to exit. However, malformed genetalia can also cause complications.

        I’m glad I never had to choose gender assignment or not because children in middle school can be cruel, so can misassignment, and as we see, adults can be cruel too.

        I posit perhaps such complicated decisions not be based entirely on religion or cultural identity of the parents alone, since what the child chooses as an adult may be very different than what the parent prefers.