• During the pandemic my wife was panicking about Long Covid. I said the chances of getting that are too low. And we got vaccinated and we masked up. Then the children went back to school, everyone got sick and now I can only lie in bed 24/7.

  • Dingaling ( digdilem@lemmy.ml ) 
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    8 months ago

    20 years old, self employed manual worker who broke his leg whilst on a night out drinking. The only night’s drinking I’d ever been on before or since.

    How quickly I ended up without any money and unable to pay rent was a real eye opener. The bank I’d used all my life denied me a very small loan, I had no friends I felt I could ask for money. Fortunately I live in a country where health care is free, and my sole client kept a place open for me to limp back into when the plaster came off. I managed to stay out of serious debt and kept a roof over my head, but skipped a lot of meals and went without heating for a few months. I’ve never forgotten the feeling of helplessness and that has been a driver for a lot of my life’s spending and saving habits. We take a lot of things for granted, but they can often be taken away so quickly.

  • msrb711 ( msrb711@feddit.org ) 
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    I used to own a business with employees. It was a small company objectively, but in a small town where I’m from that was a HUGE deal.

    The company survived COVID, but due to total chaos with supply chains that happened after covid, my business got on hard times. I saw the writing on the wall, and started firing my employees and closing the company in order not for things to get any worse. I closed my company and landed a job in another company; a never missed a single salary.

    It’s absolutely shocking how quickly everyone drops you once they hear you’ve gotten on “hard times”. All my friends, relatives, in-laws… EVERYONE drops you like you’re burning pile of shit. Want to call an old friend for drinks? You’re out of luck, nobody is taking your calls anymore, because now you’re a “failure”.

    And let me repeat once again that I haven’t gotten into any BIG trouble, just closed everything down before it did actually SHTF. It’s just the optics of “being in a bad place” and poof everyone’s gone! You’re on your own now.

  • rabber ( rabber@lemmy.ca ) 
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    Most of your friends aren’t even friends. Went through a breakup a couple years ago and when I needed friends they all abandoned me. Most people only interact with you for their own personal gain, not because they genuinely care about you.

  • absGeekNZ ( absGeekNZ@lemmy.nz ) 
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    It’s not just a metaphor, when people say things like “picture yourself in X”, or “just imagine the audience naked”.

    Others can actually see things in their mind.

    Which was very quickly followed by, “getting a song stick in your head” means you can actually hear a song over and over in your mind. How annoying.

    This seems like some king of super power. I was 40…

    • Phoenixz ( phoenixz@lemmy.ca ) 
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      I’ve listened to the same lineup of songs for weeks

      Now I’ve heard one of these songs for about two weeks straight in my head. 24/7. I hear it in my dreams. It’s a pretty song, but fuuuuuuuuuuccccckkkkkkkkk I want it out