No I’m serious. I bought mine about a year before starting HRT. It was about 20$, not a real Hitachi one (the picture is the one I have). Even back then, it became my only way of finishing. Not because I couldn’t, back then, but because doing it the “standard way” (ew) was and still is very dysphoric for me. Also, using a wand is just affirming? It feels that way at least. It was legitimately one of the best purchases ever.

Now that I’m actually on HRT, it’s literally the only way I can finish. Doing it the other way is just dysphoric af for me and also it literally hurts, because the skin is thinner and more sensitive now. I cannot finish that way, no matter how long I try for…I just end up hurting myself, so I’ve given up on that method a looong time ago. Also, I may be wrong, but I’m at least 90% sure that the wand is one of the reasons I can have long, full-body orgasms. Vibrations feel gooood lol

I didn’t think it would work on me (pre-OP) when buying it. Well…I was pleasantly surprised 😆. I’m almost convinced that a magic wand will work well for anyone, regardless of gender identity or anatomy. I really, honestly think that.
So please…no matter if you’re a woman or a man (or NB!), cis or trans, on HRT or not, pre-OP, no-OP or post-OP…get yourself a wand. It’s the best investment I’ve ever made in my life, no joke 💜

  • Witchcraft 101: everyone needs a wand

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    They actually do give good massages too, especially in those hard-to-reach spots if you don’t have someone around to do your back for you.

    Fun fact: Hitachi almost killed the magic wand because they thought accidentally inventing the world’s most popular sex toy would reflect poorly on their brand

    • Miisha ( Miisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) OP
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      Omfg, I just got hit with the MASSIVE YMMV that is life, lol. I’m sorry to hear they don’t work for you!

      Also, suction cups are amazing! Being able to prop them up on walls, having fun anywhere…it’s amazing!

      NSFW, TMI

      My favorite is mounting a toy on the shower wall and just totally going for it, fucking myself silly with a silicone dildo. I used to do it a lot!
      Just something about getting penetrated in the shower is extremely hot to me. It’s even better with a partner! 🤭
      Getting bent over against the shower wall and railed hard is probably one of my favorite pastimes. Well…any wall works, really 😆

      Also, if you’re just using a wall-mounted toy, hearing the sounds of your wet, fat ass slapping against the shower wall is just…affirming? Strangely enough? At least, that’s my case. And the slapping sounds different now, better. That definitely means my butt got bigger! Definitely :3

      And you can also turn on the warm water and feel that on your skin while going at it! Omfg, showers are the best place for sex EVER 🩷

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          Lately I’ve been turning my wood chair around and using the back as a lever to rock the chair up and down on two legs. That can get intense 😅

          I believe you. Sounds like good fun :3

          Also, i have a tall bed so it’s near perfect to get bent over on.

          YES
          On the bed :3
          Anywhere really…getting bent over is the best 🩷

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    Only problem is they’re so LOUD. At leaat the one i have is. So can only use them when parents arent home and I am. Which is like never.

    I am looking at the quieter bullet vibrator lol

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    I love mine. I have a Hitachi cordless. It just vibrates way better, more thump and less buzz than others and it’s durable and the battery last a long time still. I had bottom surgery before I started using one though. I had some complications and lost most of my clitoral tissue, so it is one of the only things that can get me off these days.

    • Miisha ( Miisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) OP
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      Damn…I’m really sorry to hear about your complications. That sounds really rough and losing most of your clitoral tissue…holy shit girl 🥺
      I’m glad the wand works for you, at least…