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Mistakes ( Mistakes@sopuli.xyz )  to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 4 days ago

Amusement rule

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Amusement rule

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Mistakes ( Mistakes@sopuli.xyz )  to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 4 days ago
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  • Banana ( Banana@sh.itjust.works ) 
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    pls just a little pain as a treat?

  • maria ~ ( Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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    yea plz do this for me angel ~ <3

    mhm there you go being so good for me—

    calling someone angel is not something I thought of before. imma remember that one.

    EDIT: also yes crying is an emergency and it should be treated with care. at least check in like “are u okay or need a lil break?” is enough.

    • Mistakes ( Mistakes@sopuli.xyz ) OP
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      My primary partner cries anytime she properly cums, so I’m not doing all of that. We are communicating and she will absolutely let me know if she needs to stop.

      • velma ( velma@sh.itjust.works ) 
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        It’s all good, I think that message was for the broader audience and not pointed at you :)

        • Mistakes ( Mistakes@sopuli.xyz ) OP
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          That’s fair. I can never tell so I just respond as to not be rude.

          • velma ( velma@sh.itjust.works ) 
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            Tone can be so hard to convey online sometimes! Your partner sounds very lucky and glad to know you both communicate well hehe

      • maria ~ ( Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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        ye this feels reasonable. I guess the crying in my eyes was mostly about stuff where… its not clear. but ye no u seem cool n stuff ~

    • Vetis ( Vetis@sh.itjust.works ) 
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      Don’t you guys have safe words for that ? Though it is true some people do become non-verbal, but that should be known.

      • maria ~ ( Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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        hmm yes but sometimes ur like “aaa I’m crying but also I don’t wanna have them stop but also I’d like them to hug me rn but also this doesnt make me wanna say that word, its not that bad”.

  • ThotDragon ( thoughtfuldragon@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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    Need somebody to call me angel to my face. I think I would die of happiness.

    • Mistakes ( Mistakes@sopuli.xyz ) OP
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      The “to my face” part of that comment is the only reason I didn’t just dump a bucket of praise and validation on you

      • ThotDragon ( thoughtfuldragon@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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        it’s still nice to hear, just wish IRL people wanted to.

        • Mistakes ( Mistakes@sopuli.xyz ) OP
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          Edit: comment removed due to worries that I’m being too forward and potentially weird.

          • ThotDragon ( thoughtfuldragon@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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            No come back here and be forward dang it!

            • Mistakes ( Mistakes@sopuli.xyz ) OP
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              I’m not going to do the usual shtick of “ask nicely and address me properly” because I already said this earlier. It was something to the tune of:

              I understand wanting something like that and not getting it, my Angel. I know that it feels bad to have a need that deeply recessed go unfulfilled. I see you. Could you be a good girl and do me the favor of being nice to you? You are not only worthy of love, you deserve it. That starts with you. It would mean a lot to me, Angel. Remember: good girls get headpats and all sorts of rewards. Thank you.

              • ThotDragon ( thoughtfuldragon@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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                I’m doing my best! Thanks for saying that. It felt really nice to hear.

  • eestileib ( eestileib@sh.itjust.works ) 
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    Why limit yourself? Be all three dommes in the same scene.

    • Mistakes ( Mistakes@sopuli.xyz ) OP
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      Dom* for me, but yeah. I think you’re cooking with that.

  • Vivian ( thestrike@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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    🌟 good post

  • Claire ( Clarion_Fae@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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    This is the content I come to this site for. You people get me.

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