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 Sky Cato   ( @skycat@beehaw.org ) Banned to Memes@lemmy.ml · 2 years ago

the whole fediverse is wholesome ❤

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the whole fediverse is wholesome ❤

 Sky Cato   ( @skycat@beehaw.org ) Banned to Memes@lemmy.ml · 2 years ago
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  •  TooMuchDog   ( @TooMuchDog@lemmy.ml ) 
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    People keep making these memes, yet I keep seeing plenty of vitriol in the comments

    •  Hofmaimaier   ( @EherVielleicht@feddit.de ) 
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      Aight bro, you wanted it that way!

      COME HERE FOR A HUG!

    •  guts   ( @guts@lemmy.ml ) 
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      I think it depends on the instance, I find lots of vitriol comments on lemmy.world.

      •  Roundcat   ( @Roundcat@kbin.social ) 
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        I noticed OP is a beehaw user, so they’re probably shielded from a lot of the active vitriol we see here.

        •  guts   ( @guts@lemmy.ml ) 
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          Correct.

      •  Ignacio   ( @Ignacio@kbin.social ) 
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        The more people there are on an instance, the more probability for those comments to happen. But it also depends on its rules, its admins, and their way to apply those rules.

    •  Annoyed_🦀   ( @Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc ) 
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      Just don’t ask what lemmy app is the best. Trust me.

      •  Roundcat   ( @Roundcat@kbin.social ) 
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        Literally had someone tell me, unless the lemmy police were actively trying to take my app away, I have no right to complain about the elitism, lol.

    •  Roundcat   ( @Roundcat@kbin.social ) 
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      Right? I don’t think I’ve seen a single thread here that doesn’t have an active fight brewing in it. Not to mention lemmy doesn’t hide that shit like reddit did. Sometimes the active fights and vitriolic comments are the top post.

  •  Bantha   ( @BanthaFood@feddit.de ) 
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    Don’t tell em about the Sync discussions

    •  bitsplease   ( @bitsplease@lemmy.ml ) 
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      Yeah, there’s plenty of other examples of toxicity, but the Sync discussions are the easiest to point to example.

      Ultimately, Lemmy has most of the same issues with condescension, toxicity, and pointless argument as reddit did

      •  TimeSquirrel   ( @TimeSquirrel@kbin.social ) 
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        deleted by creator

    •  potopato   ( @potopato@lemm.ee ) 
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      Or the announcement of lemmy.world admins preemptively defederating from Hexbear.

      Or the announcement of lemmy.world admins NOT preemptively defederating from Threads.

      Or when there’s politics involved.

  •  Ethalia   ( @3TH4Li4@feddit.ch ) 
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    Idk man… I’ve seen some truly passive aggressive comments sometimes. To the point where one could say ‘I don’t like your tone buddy’. Let’s not glorify and patronize communities one over the other.

    •  treadful   ( @treadful@lemmy.zip ) Banned from community
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      Oh, you’ve seen truly passive aggressive comments have you?!? Name every one.

    •  acastcandream   ( @acastcandream@beehaw.org ) 
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      deleted by creator

    •  Balinares   ( @Balinares@pawb.social ) 
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      True. It’s still a good aspiration. Maybe we can get there.

  •  original_ish_name   ( @original_ish_name@lemm.ee ) 
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    People on lemmy are taking the blue pill and thinking that the fediverse is wholesome, the fediverse is many things (mostly positive) but saying that we’ve got no assholes is a lie (OP did say that “the whole fediverse is wholesome ❤”)

    •  Cleverdawny   ( @Cleverdawny@lemm.ee ) 
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      I just blocked Lemmygrad and hexbear and haven’t had any issues at all with jerks since

      •  awwwyissss   ( @awwwyissss@lemm.ee ) 
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        Those two and exploding heads are trash.

      •  Fazoo   ( @Fazoo@lemmy.ml ) Banned
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        That was definitely a good start, based on my own experience. Just keep an eye out for the popular degenerates from there and be ready to block them as well. Blocking their community doesn’t keep them out of the comment sections else where. Especially politics.

        •  Sharkwellington   ( @Sharkwellington@lemmy.one ) 
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          Blocking their community doesn’t keep them out of the comment sections else where.

          Connect has an option to block comments from blocked instances.

          •  Cleverdawny   ( @Cleverdawny@lemm.ee ) 
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            Yep, that’s what I’m using. Works great

  •  Jim   ( @JimmyDean@lemm.ee ) 
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    What the fuck did you just fucking type about me, you little bitch? I’ll have you know I graduated top of my class at MIT, and I’ve been involved in numerous secret raids with Anonymous, and I have over 300 confirmed DDoSes. I am trained in online trolling and I’m the top hacker in the entire world. You are nothing to me but just another virus host. I will wipe you the fuck out with precision the likes of which has never been seen before on the Internet, mark my fucking words. You think you can get away with typing that shit to me over the Internet? Think again, fucker. As we chat over Lemmy I am tracing your IP with my damn bare hands so you better prepare for the storm, maggot. The storm that wipes out the pathetic little thing you call your computer. You’re fucking dead, kid. I can be anywhere, anytime, and I can hack into your files in over seven hundred ways, and that’s just with my bare hands. Not only am I extensively trained in hacking, but I have access to the entire arsenal of every piece of malware ever created and I will use it to its full extent to wipe your miserable ass off the face of the world wide web, you little shit. If only you could have known what unholy retribution your little “clever” comment was about to bring down upon you, maybe you would have held your fucking fingers. But you couldn’t, you didn’t, and now you’re paying the price, you goddamn idiot. I will shit code all over you and you will drown in it. You’re fucking dead, kiddo.

    •  Manas   ( @isthismanas_droid@lemdro.id ) 
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    •  cduke23   ( @cduke23@beehaw.org ) 
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      Lmao here we go! I’ve always loved the variations of this copypasta.

  •  Strayce   ( @Strayce@lemmy.sdf.org ) 
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    I actually saw someone change their mind in a heated thread. It was amazing.

    •  Yuumi   ( @Ozzy@lemmy.ml ) 
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      What open mindedness does to a mf

      •  DragonTypeWyvern   ( @DragonTypeWyvern@literature.cafe ) 
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        It used to happen on Reddit.

        Then the Trumpening…

    •  Knusper   ( @Knusper@feddit.de ) 
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      Yeah, on Reddit, especially in bigger communities, if you admitted you were wrong about something (or not at least technically correct in some way), you’d get downvoted and had asshats commenting how dumb you are, so they’d get upvoted for that.

      Here, there’s less people to dunk on you, and I imagine, also just fewer kids, who need the validation from dunking and aren’t yet as self-reflected…

  •  Archlinuxforever   ( @Archlinuxforever@lemmy.3cm.us ) 
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    I just joined Lemmy and I have already seen a comment from a tankie telling all Americans to “rot and die” in this same community. So no, it’s not all wholesome.

    •  TimeSquirrel   ( @TimeSquirrel@kbin.social ) 
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      Bonus points if the tankie was American themselves.

      •  awwwyissss   ( @awwwyissss@lemm.ee ) 
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        And double bonus points with sprinkles on top of it was a bot or shill pretending to be an American.

      •  Brisolo32   ( @Brisolo32@lemmy.eco.br ) 
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        extra points if the user was from lemmygrad

        •  Archlinuxforever   ( @Archlinuxforever@lemmy.3cm.us ) 
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          Is lemmygrad what I think it is?

          •  nickwitha_k (he/him)   ( @nickwitha_k@lemmy.sdf.org ) 
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            Probably. It’s one of the instances dedicated to Marxist-Leninists. I block some communities there due to not wanting to deal with apologia for what I see as crimes against humanity but, there are also meme communities, etc. Also, despite significant differences, the user interactions that I’ve had have been much less vitriolic than other parts of the Internet.

          •  Blaidd   ( @Blaidd@kbin.social ) 
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            A Leningrad pun, yes.

    •  Nepenthe   ( @Nepenthe@kbin.social ) 
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      If it helps, it only ever seems to be the tankies, which are progressively becoming the minority. I’m sure more dicks will show up in future waves, maybe, but…I’m kinda seeing the point of just the lowest possible entry hurdles.

      Actually, hold on, tumblr was talking about ActivityPub a few months ago, so if they ever actually do that and do it functionally, that will change the culture pretty substantially. Much more weeb/sociopolitical. I’m happily fucking out of the politics here by choice.

      •  Archlinuxforever   ( @Archlinuxforever@lemmy.3cm.us ) 
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        Yeah, anyone who makes a comment similar to that I always assume they’re a tankie. They are extremely easy to identify based on their comments.

        •  awwwyissss   ( @awwwyissss@lemm.ee ) 
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          Pretty sure a lot of them are Kremlin/CCP LLMs.

          •  Nepenthe   ( @Nepenthe@kbin.social ) 
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            I suppose the difference is the LLM knows how to build a weapon.

      •  NuPNuA   ( @NuPNuA@lemm.ee ) 
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        It is funny seeing tankies come face to face with the real world and their comment ratings sink like the Titanic though.

    •  guts   ( @guts@lemmy.ml ) 
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      The good thing about Lemmy it depends of the instance.

  •  ScrivenerX   ( @ScrivenerX@lemm.ee ) 
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    I think the difference is that it’s possible to actually engage with the community on Lemmy.

    On Reddit if I see something I have a story or thought on there are already 5000+ comments. The only people responding to me are trolls and those with nothing to do but look for a fight.

    On lemmy there might be 50 comments in 10 threads. Conversation can actually happen.

    It’s the difference between chatting at a party and shouting at a concert.

  •  randomguy2323   ( @randomguy2323@lemmy.kevitprojects.com ) 
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    I love it here.

    •  Hofmaimaier   ( @EherVielleicht@feddit.de ) 
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      Me too

  •  stephfinitely   ( @stephfinitely@artemis.camp ) 
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    Shang-Chi is making some good points

    •  cduke23   ( @cduke23@beehaw.org ) 
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      I’m pretty sure that’s Ken. He’ll beach you off in a heartbeat. Right here, right now.

    •  Blademax   ( @Blademax@lemmy.one ) 
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      Shang-chi chooses Lemmy, confirmed.

  •  NinjaJoey209   ( @NinjaJoey209@lemmy.ca ) 
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    I saw a Lemmy user give ‘benefit of the doubt’ responses for seemingly curt comments, and then original commenter thanks them instead of feeling attacked. Bizarre to me. I feel like that happened on Reddit more often at some point, even for most non-specific communities, but I haven’t seen it since.

    •  radix   ( @radix@lemm.ee ) 
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      That’s really sweet. As someone younger I never really saw that online. Maybe we can bring it back.

    •  Haus   ( @Haus@kbin.social ) 
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      The ol’ Fediverse Switcharoo.

  •  JusticeForPorygon   ( @JusticeForPorygon@lemmy.sdf.org ) 
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    This has not been my experience

    •  daq   ( @daq@lemmy.sdf.org ) 
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      Same. Almost every single argument ends with personal insults. At least on reddit people tried to avoid those because karma was such a big deal. Here nobody cares so they shit on each other whenever they disagree.

  •  potopato   ( @potopato@lemm.ee ) 
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    That’s simply not true lol

  •  Rainmanslim   ( @Rainmanslim@lemm.ee ) Banned
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    Tbh I don’t like a lot of Lemmy’s comment section. It gives me “hive mind” vibes, everyone believes the same thing, the same politics, the same everything.

    I like it when there’s disagreements, that’s how you can prevent the formation of echo chambers

  •  there1snospoon   ( @there1snospoon@ttrpg.network ) 
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    Shang Chi is a true leader here

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