I just don’t get it. Why do some people hate that we exist and then lust over the idea of us behind closed doors? Why do some people just see us as sex objects?

  • They have to twist their minds into knots and spend so much time and energy on maintaining this web of untruth and misdirection.

    Meanwhile, I simply eat ice cream, admit my guilt, and move on with my life. You simply watch LGBT+ porn, say that it’s not a sin and anyone who disagrees is a lousy bigot, and that’s that. It’s true, it’s simple, and it requires almost no mental effort.

    What envy these bigots must feel. It almost makes me pity them. Almost.

    • I think just being honest about failings is easier than denial and hypocrisy too, but there’s also that I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being LGBTQ+ in the first place. And my immediate surroundings aren’t going to exclude me or beat me up for thinking so. And for a good number of people, any porn habit at all is more shameful to admit to than an ice cream habit.

      Also, if I did think LGBTQ+ was wrong I would probably hold fast to “it’s sinful and I’m broken.” If I thought LGBTQ+ was wrong but got aroused by porn of them, listening to “maybe it isn’t a sin” viewpoints would feel like stretching for an excuse to feel better about myself and living in denial about reality.