ive been transitioning for a while now and i still dont really feel comfortable using womens facilities. i really want to because it feels like a major milestone in my transition, but idk theres still a lot of feelings stopping me. mostly i guess im just really scared, especially with how political trans fems using womens facilities has become.
im curious, when did you finally start going in womens bathrooms and locker rooms? were you comfortable or was it scary? did it take a long time to get used to it? did you have any issues?
I basically waited until I started malefailing, once people were calling me ma’am in a T-shirt and pants, I decided I could stop boymoding and just live life as me, which includes going into the ladies’ bathroom and other women’s spaces