Moldy Monday continues.
- germanatlas ( @germanatlas@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 60•17 days ago
🥺👉👈
- squirrel ( @squirrel@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) English52•17 days ago
The “”“alpha male’s”“” masculinity is so fragile, they threw a conniption when seeing a picture of a fit woman.
I have a personal hypothesis that self-proclaimed alpha [males] may feel the same gender dysphoria that trans folk do, only it is the sensation that they present less masculine than they actually do, so in their effort to attaining a little bit of machismo they go way overboard.
It’s similar I think to the way Donald Trump can be President of the United States, and still feel fragile and unworthy.
- Tiltinyall ( @Tiltinyall@beehaw.org ) 9•17 days ago
This is an understatement. History tells many tales that have passed through the ages that men in this instance have still not learned.
- glilimith ( @glilimith@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 7•17 days ago
I’m pretty sure it’s dysmorphia rather than dysphoria. Dysphoria is rooted in an accurate picture of yourself and dysmorphia in an inaccurate one. If a guy starts going to the gym because the idea of not being able to bridal carry his girlfriend makes him feel unmanly, I’d agree that’s some flavor of gender dysphoria. On the other hand, someone like the liver king thinking he still doesn’t have enough muscle is definitely body dysmorphia.
But I’d agree that (similar to dysphoria) the so-called alphas often have dysmorphia of more than just the body - they worry they come across unmanly in all ways of their presentation, regardless of how much “masculine energy” they’re already putting out.
- Septimaeus ( @Septimaeus@infosec.pub ) 5•17 days ago
Yeah this is a favorite pet theory of mine as well, partly because I like imagining guys like Andrew Tate protesting being labeled “trans alpha” or whatever, but also because it’s just a fact that many cis people experience a form of gender dysphoria and commonly seek hormone therapy for it at early ages.
I’ve found that comparison usually clicks with uninitiated cis people immediately, even when they’ve only heard othering and alarmist narratives up to that point.
- goferking0 ( @goferking0@lemmy.sdf.org ) 42•17 days ago
What part of this great picture got them scared?
- Che Banana ( @The_Che_Banana@beehaw.org ) 10•17 days ago
sweaty 6 pack made their pants tight, and monkey brain confused as only men should have 6 pack abs…ergo they may have caught the gay
- Rozaŭtuno ( @Rozauhtuno@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 40•17 days ago
If the West falling means we get more fit women with abs, good. Let it all crash down.
- Kaityy ( @kaityy@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 33•17 days ago
drooling, sweating, crying, moaning, throwing up, flying, levitating, spinning, turning inside out, achieving enlightenment, …
- rickyrigatoni ( @rickyrigatoni@lemm.ee ) 32•16 days ago
Why do podcasters hate attractive women
- lightnsfw ( @lightnsfw@reddthat.com ) 18•16 days ago
Because the woman makes an effort to take care of herself and it makes them feel shitty about being lazy.
- Lad ( @AFC1886VCC@reddthat.com ) 16•16 days ago
Some guys feel emasculated when they can’t make a beautiful woman like them. So the only way they can feel like they’ve taken some power back is to belittle and talk down beautiful women.
- umbrella ( @umbrella@lemmy.ml ) 11•16 days ago
because they won’t touch their peepee
- Pero ( @pero@lemm.ee ) English8•16 days ago
Because they are afraid she’d absolutely dominate them? Freaking AlPHa MalEs.
- umbrella ( @umbrella@lemmy.ml ) 29•17 days ago
the west IS indeed falling, just not for the reasons the chud podcaster types think it is.
the irony of it is that its probably more to do with the aforementioned podcasters than with [shuffles cards] women who go to the gym.
- DragonTypeWyvern ( @DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social ) 16•17 days ago
Women who go to the gym will save us from the system collapse with their mommy muscles 😤
- megopie ( @megopie@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) English5•16 days ago
I think the podcasts are a more a symptom of people attempting to rationalize how real issues are the fault of anything but the systems they are personally invested in.
- stevedidwhat_infosec ( @stevedidwhat_infosec@infosec.pub ) 27•17 days ago
* Increased demographic of physically fit people *
‘Servies: REEEEE
- AVincentInSpace ( @AVincentInSpace@pawb.social ) English23•17 days ago
i’m a gay man but that’s hot as fuck
- rozwud ( @rozwud@beehaw.org ) 16•17 days ago
I’m a bi/pan woman and yes, that is an objective truth.
- TheReturnOfPEB ( @TheReturnOfPEB@reddthat.com ) English20•17 days ago
What is so crazy is that a lot of these folks look up to Sparta because of its dedication to physical conditioning. But of the people that traveled to Sparta we know that they wrote of watching the women of Sparta exercise because they were known to be strong, fast, and beautiful because of their exercise and physical conditioning was expected of them even as slave owning elites.
This person should be lauded for their dedication to conditioning and feared for their ability to Kegel a steel girder asunder. And they probably don’t even own one slave outright so it is even that more amazing.
- fossilesque ( @fossilesque@mander.xyz ) English18•17 days ago
I miss being fit. Muscle mommies are underrated. All the endorphins. First thing I’m going to do off a grad student salary is get a personal trainer. Fitness makes me feel normal and happy. I lost my six pack here, foo.
- el_abuelo ( @el_abuelo@lemmy.ml ) 8•17 days ago
If I may ask, what stopped you? Because being fit isn’t only for the rich…you can do bodyweight and still be damn fit!
- fossilesque ( @fossilesque@mander.xyz ) English9•17 days ago
I tripped on stairs and my foot got stuck on carpet staples during apt rennovations. They can’t find what happened to the soft tissue yet, it is still purple on the side. I can walk and even hike a bit but I really feel it later. I didnt break anything, my foot was stronger than most from sports, so I basically got really bad turf toe plus something is damaged mechanically. It throws off my balance a bit too, otherwise I’d be doing yoga. They thought it would heal but it’s not… It’s been a few years of waiting and trying different things and tests; but I have a specialist seeing me in a few months if they don’t reschedule again (the healthcare here is great, just not enough workers)…
That being said I hate, hate, hate the gym, it feels too voyeuristic and crowded. I’d rather be outside doing something fun. I know I’ll go if I’m paying for a trainer. If all else fails I’ll get a little Pelican kayak or find a heated pool in the next place I live and do my thing when I’m not worried about money haha.
I will say that feeling your muscles atrophy is fucking wild. Fortunately my partner is a trained masseuse that has worked on a lot of athletes!! :)
- el_abuelo ( @el_abuelo@lemmy.ml ) 4•17 days ago
Hope you get to the bottom of it soon!
Sounds like you still have lots of options for maintaining fitness:
- pretty much any upper body exercises
- bodyweight single-leg squats?
- if you can get to a cheap gym you’ve got a myriad of resistance machines available they don’t need balance etc…but maybe cost is an issue.
Anyway I’m sure you’ve thought of all of this - just know this one stranger wants you to be able to lead a healthier life soon!
- fossilesque ( @fossilesque@mander.xyz ) English4•16 days ago
I’m going to be honest: I will not do any of that lol. It does not keep my brain busy therefore, it doesn’t happen. I’ve got that internal ADHD.
- el_abuelo ( @el_abuelo@lemmy.ml ) 1•16 days ago
Never heard of it, but I can imagine what you mean!
- Liz ( @Liz@midwest.social ) English2•15 days ago
Bruh, I got stuck in bed for a few years and the first few months were so weird, feeling my knee joints becoming less stable thanks to less muscular support.
- lightnsfw ( @lightnsfw@reddthat.com ) 1•16 days ago
That being said I hate, hate, hate the gym, it feels too voyeuristic and crowded. I’d rather be outside doing something fun. I know I’ll go if I’m paying for a trainer. If all else fails I’ll get a little Pelican kayak or find a heated pool in the next place I live and do my thing when I’m not worried about money haha.
I also have a hard time going to the gym. I bought a set of adjustable dumbbells so I can just work out at home. They even have a bar that screws in between them to make it into a barbell (I don’t have a rack to really load it up safely but it’s still useful). Since I got those my workout schedule has stayed pretty consistent. It seems the “having to go somewhere” part was what was always tripping me up before.
- fossilesque ( @fossilesque@mander.xyz ) English2•16 days ago
Once you find those blocks and what makes them, it helps the guilt a ton!
- Chuymatt ( @Chuymatt@beehaw.org ) 3•17 days ago
Dood, Have you done grad school for the sciences? Man, my last 2 years had me hunched over researching/working for 60hr a week minimum, then the study and class time.
- el_abuelo ( @el_abuelo@lemmy.ml ) 1•17 days ago
I don’t know what grad school is - I have a masters degree in astrophysics and I have to say it required nothing like what you’ve described, so I suspect you’re aiming for a PhD or something?
Balancing life and fitness can be very challenging these days, especially the kind of commitment required to achieve the lean and strong body shown here.
Good luck in your studies, I hope you find time for a healthier lifestyle soon!
BTW- the original poster mentioned the affordability, not the time issue. Hence why I said what I did.
- emmie ( @emmie@lemmy.ml ) 17•17 days ago
Beautiful end of western civilisation. Being a doomer finally paid off.
My excitement for the fall of western civilisation cannot be overstated
- homesnatch ( @homesnatch@lemm.ee ) 5•16 days ago
Also looking forward to the fall of Eastern Civilization… And Central Civilization…
- Swedneck ( @Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de ) 1•13 days ago
finland and argentina eating popcorn as they watch the world burn
- puchaczyk ( @puchaczyk@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 9•17 days ago
The west has fallen, long live the west
- BaroqueInMind ( @BaroqueInMind@lemmy.one ) 7•17 days ago
So I scanned bolverk15’s Twitter and could not locate that original photo and find the actual ab model for research purposes. Someone please help.
i wanted to make a chain by posting on raddle 😭