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obamacares ( obamacares@lemmy.ml )  to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 7 months ago

Why did you come to Lemmy?

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Why did you come to Lemmy?

obamacares ( obamacares@lemmy.ml )  to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 7 months ago
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  • Gamma ( GammaGames@beehaw.org ) 
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    apicalypse, rip apollo

    • MyBrainHurts ( MyBrainHurts@piefed.ca ) Banned from community
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      Never seen the term apicalypse and just had to say it’s fantastic.

      That was my fediverse cohort too.

    • GriffinClaw ( GriffinClaw@lemmy.zip ) 
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      Same. I could only reddit through Boost.

      Typing this from Boost for Lemmy :)

  • Ada ( ada@piefed.blahaj.zone ) 
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    Because I missed the niche that reddit filled and I wasn’t willing to return to reddit or any other corporate, centralised social media/community platform.

  • hexagonwin ( hexagonwin@lemmy.today ) 
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    reddit isn’t fun

    • obamacares ( obamacares@lemmy.ml ) OP
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      I HATE REDDIT CENSORSHIP, seriously, it’s a weird politically biased censorship, you need to constantly adjust what you have to say/not say at all depending on the sub-reddit, leads to idiotic echo-chambers and self-righteous people who are just in a bubble, idk

  • lazynooblet ( lazynooblet@lazysoci.al ) 
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    Reddit killed third party apps and I refused to use their shit app. It all just stinks of enshitification. So I spun up my own instance of Lemmy and haven’t looked back.

    • greenbelt ( greenbelt@lemy.lol ) 
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      You seem like a high initiative individual. Congrats. I lack technical sophistication to even buy a domain name lol. How much do you pay for lazysoci.al per year (the domain name)?

      • lazynooblet ( lazynooblet@lazysoci.al ) 
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        It’s about £10 a year. I’m lucky though as I run a small side business which has some hosting capabilities. So there is already an enterprise grade set of servers ready to deploy Lemmy. I don’t need to look for hosting costs or be worried about performance as the servers are paid for and are top spec.

    • obamacares ( obamacares@lemmy.ml ) OP
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      What is your Lemmy instance?

      • lazynooblet ( lazynooblet@lazysoci.al ) 
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        lazysoci.al

  • null ( null@lemmy.org ) Banned from community
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    Reddit ban for a R1 violation.

    Apparently if you say punching a nazi is a form of self-defense they’ll say you’re inciting violence.

    • obamacares ( obamacares@lemmy.ml ) OP
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      fuck that, we need guns to enforce our rights, even communists know that. I mean whatever.

  • Drinvictus ( Drinvictus@discuss.tchncs.de ) 
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    because centralized social media eventually leads to ads/monetization etc. your content becomes for profit

  • frozenspinach ( frozenspinach@lemmy.ml ) 
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    Just to get away from Reddit and help make the fediverse successful.

  • ptc075 ( ptc075@lemmy.zip ) 
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    Reddit’s bot detection bot banned me for being a bot. The irony was too much.

    • Nebulous_Keito ( Nebulous_Keito@thelemmy.club ) 
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      I guess that happened because you had your VPN on

  • Shellofbiomatter ( Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org ) 
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    I finally got banned from Reddit and by now they have rather effective methods to detect ban evasion.

    • obamacares ( obamacares@lemmy.ml ) OP
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      That is sooooo annoying! Like, ok ban my account. But ban ME for ever? Ridiculous. Sincerely hope Reddit dies

    • comfy ( comfy@lemmy.ml ) 
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      I’ve tried to make a couple of anonymous throwaways (for privacy reasons - I’ve never been banned) and they vanish pretty quickly, seemingly as soon as I share a link. Yes, even when not using a VPN.

  • melfie ( melfie@lemy.lol ) 
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    deleted by creator

    • locuester ( locuester@lemmy.zip ) 
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      Yep. Same.

  • UnimportantHuman ( UnimportantHuman@lemmy.ml ) 
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    I just want to see less bots and find real community and conversations. I also love the concept of decentralized platforms. I feel like the Internet mostly isn’t even real. I miss what it was like 15+ years ago.

  • InvalidName2 ( InvalidName2@lemmy.zip ) 
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    I’d already heard of Mastodon and based on poking around there, I learned about Lemmy, so I explored it as a Reddit alternative. Initially, my early exposure to lemmy was mostly a curiosity thing.

    Also during that time, my resentment and distaste for Reddit’s policies and general culture was building up. The place had changed so much over the years, just slowly enough that it took awhile to notice that it was no longer the same place it was when I first arrived.

    I ended up coming to Lemmy in the months ahead of the Reddit API fiasco, but would still peek over there from time to time. Then post API fiasco, I just stopped even peeking.

    In those days, Lemmy was a largely KIND place, so that really helped the transition. The culture here was different from Reddit, and seemed much more positive and supportive at that time, so that made it easier to look past the flaws. It was a regular occurrence to see folks call out users who were being abusive or overly abrasive in their replies, and folks would often talk out or joke about their differences. It was a nice, refreshing change of pace most of the time.

    That’s almost all gone now or perhaps hidden on some private or unbeknownst to me server somewhere in the Fediverse. But for me, for now, I’m still here. I just had to adapt. Basically I mostly stopped reading replies to my comments and just block people I see being abusive to others, but this also means Lemmy is now a sad, dead echo of its not too distant past and more of an opportunity to fart into the winds of oblivion.

    • ProdigalFrog ( ProdigalFrog@slrpnk.net ) 
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      My instance and Beehaw still have that earlier friendliness (IMO, at least).

      The threadiverse has gotten a bit more hostile since then, but on the whole I still find it pretty friendly, with many pleasant convos and sharing of useful info, but perhaps that’s just the places I visit here.

  • therugbychick ( therugbychick@lemmy.nz ) 
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    Trying to understand someone I adore who prefers Lemmy. Also, Reddit feels overrun with fake accounts and scammers.

  • arthur ( arthur@lemmy.zip ) 
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    Corporative social media pushed me out, ActivityPub seems a great solution to those problems.

    Then Reddit and Communism

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    Not associating with as many bots.

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