so for a while we disliked having a penis. but now we find it pretty cool to have one while being female.

somehow, when we look down at our crotch now, the part of our brain that recognizes stuff just goes “oh thats a woman’s penis, how affirming”—that’s right, we find our penis affirming! and yes it makes as little sense to us as it does to you but its funny as hell and we are so appreciative of it.

the best part is, from a biological standpoint giving regards to HRT, the feminine penis is a very real thing! thus, so long as it’s not masculine or manly or whatever we don’t find it dysphoric, even if it’s like the epitome of “masculine” and “manly”.

we just thought this would be fun to share. cheers!

p.s. bottom surgery is still absolutely in question (orchiectomy is a certain) and we may look into penile-preserving vaginoplasty. we have a consult scheduled so we’ll ask about it then ⌃⌃

  • JennyLaFae ( JennyLaFae@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) English
    17·
    2 days ago

    Boy dick 🫷😩

    Girl dick 🤌🤤

    Seriously though, there are absolutely genital changes with hrt and look feel and taste are so different they really are not the same genitals as a cis configuration.

  • gandalf_die_12te ( gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) English
    4·
    2 days ago

    funny ^^

    i tend to think that what’s more important is not the body part, but how you use it. there are good and bad people with a penis, just like a woman at the supermarket can be absolutely charming or the worst cunt you’ve ever had the bad luck to deal with. there is no inherent relation between penis / gender / being a somewhat nice person. these are all orthogonal properties.

    anyways, i used to do a lot of meditation (especially buddhist stuff) about “just seeing things how they are, and not judging”, and nowadays when i see my own penis, my mind goes all like “isn’t it funny how body parts are shaped? this one is just a little outwards-stub, why did nature make it this way? wouldn’t it be much simpler from an engineering point of view to put things inside the body, not outside?” and that’s it. no dysphoria, no anxiety, nothing.