Hiya!

My partner (AFAB, Cis) and I (AMAB, MtF NB) recently tried a strap, I’ve done anal stuff on myself in the past, but never got much from it.

I’m not sure if it was the size that I was taking, the curvature, or the fact that it was someone else thrusting much harder and faster than I’d done on myself before; but this felt really good, like I thought I was gonna cum in two pumps good.

And I probably would’ve, if it wasn’t also for the almost equivalent amount of pain I got from it; it was like a cold burning, and rather sharp.

We thought maybe I just needed some warm-up, but even then that didn’t really make it go away.

I’ve ordered myself a much bigger toy than I was using previously, and a set of butt plugs too, to try and see if I just need more practice for my body to get used to having things go in there.

I thought I’d put this up to see if anyone could give any advice as to what we, or me, can do to hopefully get over this? Like I said, it felt great, and we both really enjoyed it, so we’re both extremely eager to do this on the regular.

Thanks for your time!