I’m tired of supporting instances that support that trash. Are there any suggestions or even a good up-to-date list available?

  • Rimu ( rimu@piefed.social ) 
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    Here’s a diagram

    https://piefed.social/c/fediverse@lemmy.world/p/2258999/maybe-a-better-threadiverse-major-defederations-graph

    here’s another

    https://piefed.social/c/bestoflemmy@lemmy.world/p/2260084/threadiverse-major-defederations-graph

    Since those diagrams were made, beehaw.org defederated from lemmy.ml. But they also have lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works defederated so it’s… not a popular choice.

    PieFed has the concept of silencing another instance. A silenced instance is not defederated from but their posts do not show in the Popular or All feeds and their communities are not shown during onboarding. Their communities can still be found in the communities list (if you unblock the instance first) and joined in the normal way. Once joined, posts in there show up in the Subscribed feed of the joiner as usual.

    Since I added silencing functionality I feel like there’s almost no need for (more) defederation. I can offer protection to newbies who don’t yet know which places to avoid and they can explore the dark corners when they’re ready. It’s a low-drama way to put a bit of distance between groups that rub each other the wrong way.

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      beehaw.org defederated from lemmy.ml

      Good move from the admins.

      Federating seemed reasonable at first glance. I thought interacting with lemmy.ml would be worth it to see a wider range of opinions, avoid the bubble effect. It felt like interacting with yet another bubble that hates introspection and reject all critical comments outrights. Got quickly banned from a community with the reason “nazy” after I pointed out Iran’s human right violations, in a post about Iran and human rights. In retrospect those interactions where a total waste of time.

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        I love it here. We’ve got a relatively small amount of monthly active users, but it’s soo worth it. It’s like a quality over quantity thing, big time. Most people here really take the whole “be(e) kind” and “try to participate in good faith” stuff seriously. Also, the admins are awesome.

        I’ve got a whole slew of accounts on many different instances, but Beehaw is definitely my fediverse home and the one I use the most by far. <3

        And! Our mascot is a lil bee in a cowboy hat. How cute is that??

        Anywho, if you decide you wanna give it a shot, we’d love to have ya! Either way, I hope you find one that fits what you’re looking for! :)

        *Edit: There’s something else I thought of that may interest you. There’s long been talk of Beehaw moving off of the Lemmy software both because of it’s limitations and due to not wanting to support the devs/the lemmy.ml admins. Last I heard, we’re just kind of sticking with what we’ve got until there’s something else that’ll work better for us and still federate with others, like Sublinks iirc.

      • Rimu ( rimu@piefed.social ) 
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        With the silencing and default-block setup piefed.social has now, we get all the benefits of defederation without any of the costs.

        There really hasn’t been the kind of crisis with them that would bring the issue to a head. When there are problems it’s not with the admins, it’s with individual accounts. So we just muddle on.

        There are worse instances.


        We can’t divide and fight our way to a fediverse that defeats reddit / meta. We need to build something together. Sometimes that will mean excluding destructive elements but most of our energy needs to go into making something awesome, a place people want to come to instead of big tech offerings.

        • Pratai ( Pratai@piefed.ca ) OP
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          The problem is, remaining federated with them is supporting them, hidden or not. Silencing them just cuts them off on one side. .ml trolls still see content created on the instance.

          I see any instance not willing to completely cut ties with that shithole as supporting it. Even in the smallest way.

          And frankly, I don’t understand why anyone would NOT disassociate with them. They have proven themselves to not want anything to do with fair discourse or allow facts into any discussion. This isn’t an opinion, this is very well documented. Not only is there an entire community dedicated to calling them out- but the modlogs are full of those asshole admins banning anyone they disagree with regardless if they violated any of the posted rules.

          Who would want to be a part of this?

          If you’re not defederated from it entirely; you support it.

          • Rimu ( rimu@piefed.social ) 
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            I don’t think federation implies endorsement or support. It’s more like “isn’t bad enough to cast out forever”.

            PieFed has more of a spectrum of federation. There are trusted instances, normal instances, silenced instances and defederated instances. So it’s not a binary choice.

            .ml trolls still see content created on the instance.

            Yes that is a bummer. I have made a few attempts to limit federation based on what the poster has blocked but Lemmy is quite good at pulling in content that it previously didn’t receive, which works around it. More effort on this is needed.

  • solrize ( solrize@infosec.pub ) 
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    Oh sheesh stop acting like a baby. If you don’t want to read something then don’t read it.

    Re infosec.pub: I just logged in and checked, and I can see .ml communities from here.

  • lime! ( lime@feddit.nu ) 
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    ml is the dev instance. you’re supporting it by using lemmy. so really you should look for software that doesn’t federate with any lemmy instances.