Sharkwellington ( @Sharkwellington@lemmy.one ) 46•8 months agoIf I could push a button to change my sex I absolutely would, but I don’t have it in me to transition on the outside and deal with the societal consequences. So I just stick with androgyny as “close enough”.
metallic_z3r0 ( @metallic_z3r0@infosec.pub ) 19•8 months agoI’m with you there, though I would push that button like every other day. I like being a guy, and I think I would like being a girl about half the time, though ideally I’d control two bodies simultaneously all the time.
Sharkwellington ( @Sharkwellington@lemmy.one ) 16•8 months agoSounds to me like you’re genderfluid.
Franzia ( @Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 3•8 months agoThis sounds like boymoding. Is it the same thing?
Sharkwellington ( @Sharkwellington@lemmy.one ) 3•8 months agoI’ve never heard of this in my life so you tell me haha.
Franzia ( @Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 8•8 months agoIt’s like when you are trans MtF, transitioning, but stay closeted and dressing like a male and going by male pronouns… Even while bodily changes take place. The idea being you can one day wake up and put on a dress and you’ll just be a girl and you can come out of the closet to… People who had the opportunity to notice these changes in you for a long time.
Sharkwellington ( @Sharkwellington@lemmy.one ) 2•8 months agoYeah maybe that’s accurate. 😅
Madlaine ( @Oszilloraptor@feddit.de ) 25•8 months agoI feel weirdly called out…
ChaoticNeutralCzech ( @ChaoticNeutralCzech@feddit.de ) 15•8 months agoThat’s what representation does to a mf. It’s alright.
FakeGreekGirl ( @FakeGreekGirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) English3•8 months agoYou and me both.
Madlaine ( @Oszilloraptor@feddit.de ) 4•7 months agoStatus update: Mold accepted.
And what about you?
FakeGreekGirl ( @FakeGreekGirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) English3•7 months agoStill figuring myself out. Which is why this account exists, to be honest.
bbpolterGAYst (she/her) ( @bbpolterGAYst@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 20•8 months agofact of the day: all trans people have fungus in brain
Franzia ( @Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 3•8 months agoFungus brain is better than the brain worms 🥲
FakeGreekGirl ( @FakeGreekGirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) English1•8 months agoThe fungus keeps the brain worms away.
Tywele ( @Tywele@lemmy.dbzer0.com ) 13•8 months agoThat was me for soo long! I’m glad I finally came out to family and friends. And so far everyone reacted positive!
🇰 🔵 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 ℹ️ ( @Kolanaki@yiffit.net ) English12•8 months agoI just want a vagina between my asshole and balls. Is that trans? IDK. But I think it would be pretty cool.
Rozaŭtuno ( @Rozauhtuno@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 5•8 months agoI’ve heard it’s possible, and some trans people get it done, but I haven’t really looked it up.
🇰 🔵 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 ℹ️ ( @Kolanaki@yiffit.net ) English7•8 months agoIt’s called phallus preserving vaginoplasty. I had wondered about it for a long time and only discovered what it was called the other day so I’ve been reading a lot about it.
apotheotic(she/they) ( @apotheotic@beehaw.org ) English4•8 months agoYo that’s fucking awesome. I like my “package” but also wish I had the other “kit”. That sounds ideal.
Holzkohlen ( @Holzkohlen@feddit.de ) 12•8 months agoTrans imposter syndrome?
confusedbytheBasics ( @confusedbytheBasics@beehaw.org ) English10•8 months agoI love this comic. I’m extremely curious about the experiences of attractive women. So curious I sometimes think I wish I were a woman. Sometimes I feel jealous of all the validation they get. However the more I learn about their lives the more glad I am to be an attractive man.
Michelle Hughes ( @MegaMichelle@a2mi.social ) 11•8 months ago@confusedbytheBasics @squirrel
Okay, but if the social pressures were equal, which would you rather be?
Cuz, like, being scared of the social consequences of transitioning doesn’t make you not trans.
confusedbytheBasics ( @confusedbytheBasics@beehaw.org ) English1•7 months agoI don’t want to change my body and I’m comfortable being a man. I’m intensely curious about another life but I’m happy with my own. If I could start over in a new body and could choose to be a cis woman I would.
Franzia ( @Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 10•8 months agoI’ve had this conversation! This is where a lot of tranaphobia came out of me. Like “yeah I wanna be a girl, but not trans - trans people are freaks. I’m not like them.” Fortunately, trans people have very good representation now.
I was really lucky to have met so many great trans people at the perfect times… And it didn’t change much for me. It was, and still is, about accepting myself. So many conversations about it, yet none led to me doing anything about knowing I’m trans.
Smoregoose ( @Smoregoose@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 2•8 months agoI think I’m still trying to get past some of that myself to some extent… I was into alternate universe stuff when I was like 14 or 15, and just randomly one day I thought of the universe where I was a girl and I came to the conclusion that I would be happier and more attractive in that universe… unfortunately I hadn’t had any exposure to trans people outside of the mockery present in pop culture, so I forgot about it and a few years later started accepting trans people (except I was always confused by trans men for some reason…). Then at the start of this year, after already questioning my gender for about another year, I remembered that conclusion…
Franzia ( @Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 3•8 months agoOmg congrats 🥰 I similarly came to egg conclusions as a teen and then sort of shelved it because people were vehemently opposed to what I was trying to express. I’m 26 now 😋 and now I’m 100x more annoying and stubborn, so its the perfect time to transition.
Nominel ( @Nominel@kbin.run ) 7•8 months agoDaisy is currently working on a new webcomic, also with a trans girl protagonist: https://yellowbrickramble.com/comic/the-marvelous-land-of-oz
Thembo McBembo ( @ThemboMcBembo@beehaw.org ) 2•8 months agoJust caught up on the whole thing + Pepsiphobia, thanks for sharing :)
Nominel ( @Nominel@kbin.run ) 1•8 months agoYou’re welcome! I hope you have a great day today.
Michelle Hughes ( @MegaMichelle@a2mi.social ) 3•8 months agoSooo relatable!
HerbalGamer ( @HerbalGamer@lemm.ee ) 2•8 months ago😶
uriel238 ( @uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) English2•8 months agoI’m saving this comic.
apotheotic(she/they) ( @apotheotic@beehaw.org ) English2•8 months agoThank you so much for introducing me to this comic 💕