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Cake day: June 2nd, 2023

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  • I think that begging the mods for refederation will be a common occurrence in the newly emerging fediverse, but I think we’ll all just have to get used to the idea that the fediverse is about voluntary communities and you’ll have to forge your own path using multiple accounts/etc. The entire point of defederation is that Beehaw doesn’t want certain communities or people with certain viewpoints congregating here - that’s the choice of this community and the use of multiple accounts does get around that but it’s just what will have to be done if you want to be someone associated with defederated communities.


  • Was waiting to see a good knife on here. I got my first good knife this year… It’s insane how much of a difference it makes.

    I got a fancy carbon one so I need to wipe it off after I use it pretty quickly too, but I honestly love the character of the patina that is developing (it’s just a few mm of the edge that is reactive, the rest is sandwiched between nonreactive metal). Still, a good chopping experience makes me happy to pull out the fancy knife and chop even chicken tenders into feather fine slices for a salad or wrap 🤣



  • Ironically my safety razors are Gillette brand but I bought a big pack years ago and haven’t had to buy any since. Recently misplaced the box in a move so I might need to order more if I can’t find them but “lost all my excessive amounts of razor blades in a move” is a lot nicer of an economic picture of safety razors than running out lol.

    I’m a lady too… Lady razors are soooo expensive. Learning to shave sensitive areas was intimidating but the safety razor is amazing. I have super sensitive skin and boar bristle hair so the safety razor has been a game changer in terms of ingrowns and whatnot. I get an extra 12 hours or so without the stubble growing back too compared to conventional razors. Cut the outside of my ankle once but that’s the only accident I’ve had lol - the trick is not to apply pressure like with a conventional blade because the safety razor does the work for you, and don’t underestimate the delicate region on the outside of your ankle lol). It’s not just economics - dragging just one super sharp razor across your skin is much gentler on your follicles than 5 less sharp blades (since conventional razors have multiple blades, each one passes over the follicle). Shaving the same area 5 times with the safety razor would still cause less trauma because the blades are sharper.

    It’s been 5 years and I haven’t bought new razors or had nearly as much razor burn or ingrowns ever since! And of course my legs are much smoother and the shave lasts much longer (which still isn’t much for me since I’m part sasquatch but still).


  • We really need to start asking ourselves what a “future-proof” social media could or should actually look like.

    Does any media company actually think about it? I know there are some big tech ideas like Meta or whatever but I’m serious, it feels like no one running anything has any real thoughts about the future except for in terms of propaganda or advertising. No one actually cares about the social part of social media which is why people have to build it on their own… Hence, the fediverse.


  • I lean left and find CBC to be fairly reliable. It’s liberal.

    Honestly, I think the most valuable CBC entity is The National. I trust that people who have been literal war reporters can help guide me to take in content that I would never watch on the internet on my own (Ukraine war footage, etc). There is something so chaotic about having complete access to all war footage and everything and not being able to trust myself to know if I’m informing myself or simply being a voyeur… When The National plays war footage, I’m filled with a sense of relief that fairly trustworthy journalists and editors have decided that the footage they play is something that the general public can see without terror, and that it is also important for the public to see. It’s like how I needed to build up trust with a certain history podcaster before attempting to listen to the Nanking and Kmer Rouge episodes. There are certain topics that I believe people need their hand held a bit to engage in so I think the CBC does a good job. Maybe it sounds cheesy or something but in the book Oryx and Crake the teen boys watch horrible stuff on the internet and become desensitized, and no longer really have the ability to understand what is real and important or not. I read it as a teen myself and it terrified me how prescient that book was. I don’t want the serious stuff in this world to just become noise to me - having framers or meaning-makers or guides is important.

    I’d rather trust experienced journalists at the CBC than random hacks throwing content at my face… It depends on the topic of course, but I honestly believe that the CBC is neutral seeming as a leftist and that is good good good news. Of course there is bias in everything but if a news piece seems neutral, it means the journalists are doing their jobs and I don’t feel like I’m being manipulated or having my rage stoked up so much (like some other news sites with clear agendas).

    I’ll never forget the episode of the National where they aired Trudeau stumbling over his words for a question, taking a deep inhale and then getting cut off… I burst out laughing and told my parents “people who think the CBC is Trudeau’s mouthpiece should see this clip”. It was a few months ago, can’t remember the scenario now but it was absolutely comical. It did honestly show Trudeau’s unpreparedness/unwillingness to answer a question on a serious topic but it was also hilarious.



  • What is the up arrow then if not an upvote? I’m on Lemmy Jerboa so the available up arrow (I’m from Beehaw so no downvotes) seems like an upvote to me.

    I wonder if the fediverse would be easier for people if we brought back forum-style comment signatures… For example, I’m on Lemmy using the Jerboa Android app so everything will look different compared to what you’re doing on KBIN.

    Might be a super cool way to show new users the vast diversity of access experiences possible if there were a tiny automatic darker coloured line in the comment subscript showing what access point/app the poster was using when they made their comment. It would also help new people not be as confused because people wouldn’t think that certain design features are available when they are talking about a different version of the fediverse/app. For example, apparently Mastodon allows users to interact with Lemmy but Lemmy users can’t go on Mastodon (yet…?). I really like the popular guy who always makes it clear that he is posting on Lemmy from Mastodon - it was an incredibly inspiring thing to learn about the fediverse and its possibilities.


  • The more times you listen you’ll end up developing your feelings more.

    Apparently according to Spotify I was in the top 2% of Pink Floyd listeners in 2022? I only listened for 751 minutes though, which isn’t that much. Mostly listening to The Wall on repeat.

    There is a movie that goes along with The Wall, of you didn’t know. I think that it kind of narrows the ability of people to interpret the songs in their own way but it’s still excellent. It’s part love action part animated. If you haven’t seen the hand drawn animation that goes along with Goodbye Blue Sky and The Trial, you should definitely check it out. It’s absolutely insane.

    My fav part of The Trial animation is when the mom is introduced with her long “baaaabbbbbyyyyyy” and she is like a fighter jet bearing down, whose wings open up into vulva and from the core an umbilical cord shoots out to grab the rag doll Pink into her arms as she embraces her son… It’s just a moment but holy shit. It really adds to the scene. The ex wife is characterized as a praying mantis in two songs…

    I saw The Wall Live in like 2011/2012 and it was an incredible show. The 40 foot puppets torturing Pink were awesome. The mom puppet appears in the song Mother and her eyes glow red, the words “big mother is watching you” splays across the wall set as her head swivels back and forth over the crowd…

    I’m not sure if there is a Wall Live recording online but I’d really recommend watching the original movie and then watching a concert version. It’s probably the most insane set ever built for a musical show (they build up the wall over the course of the first half, the last brick is placed as the character bids the audience goodbye… We return from intermission and Pink is easily corrupted by the worms into a fascist when his mind is blocked off - then they literally explode the 40 foot wall set at the end… So awesome).

    Listen to Wish You Were Here! It’s generally about the loss of their dear friend and band founder Syd Barrett, a musical visionary lost to the challenges of schizophrenia/the origins of the band. It’s very very good. Some of David’s best guitar is in the Shine On You Crazy Diamond songs.



  • NotJustBikes is honestly a force of nature I think. His content is so awesome he’s basically created a new generation of urbanists. We need people like him because his content can actually change the world.

    Of you don’t know where to start on his channel, the Strong Towns 4 part series is essential viewing. It’s a summary of the Strong Towns research project/community and it basically presents decades of expert research as a tidy little series. Everything else is window dressing to the core messaging of that - crappy spread out suburbs are financially insolvent and cannot sustain themselves. Towns and cities die without a reliable tax base. Everything boils down to that. There is a 30 year cycle where new suburbs pay for the old ones and in 30 years they become a net negative to city budgets.

    Mississauga in Ontario recently ran out of municipal land… Their strategy has been suburban expansion for decades. Now they’re out of room. It wouldn’t have been a very exciting headline except now we know that new suburbs must be built to pay for the financial drain the old ones place on the city… So they MUST become more dense or else the city will become bankrupt.

    There is also a video on the channel about how Guelph did a financial analysis on what parts of the city are financially productive and which are net negatives on the budget. I’m sure you can guess the results! Really cool 3D bar graphs of the city divided up into blocks/sections. it’s just interesting because politicians always always pander to suburban voters and people think suburban tax money pays for inner city programming or whatever and the reverse is the truth. The inner cities are the ones subsidizing the suburbs. Density = people = economy. Population density = productivity = money.

    Imagine if politicians ignored homeowners and focused on the people actually funding the budgets? Suburbs are a financial drain only kept alive by the Ponzi scheme of creating new suburbs to find the old ones. Until you run out of land like Mississauga. Then you get slashing of budgets and lack of programs, decaying infrastructure, etc… Then cities just die like so many have across north America.


  • I predicted forcible demods…

    But like, I feel like the one thing that would work is the one thing no one has been talking about.

    A mod strike!

    Maybe it has been suppressed because it would seem too radical but like, if the communities are going to die anyways might as well go out with a bang. Mods should all go on strike and spammers can run free and burn the site to the ground. That’s basically what happened with Twitter, right? Has Spez seen what has happened to the valuation of Twitter this past year or what?

    I went on Reddit during the blackout and on the front page there were shitty tattoos of bdsm furries with their dick and balls out… If the front page could all turn into that and the enforcement of NSFW tags was lost due to lack of mods, I can’t imagine that the shareholders would be happy about what the site has become.

    Mod + user direct action - everyone should post spacedicks/porn and mods should refuse to enforce the rules. Reddit wants to destroy the mods? Then reddit should see what a world without mods on the internet actually looks like… Especially before the IPO. Plus, the internet can get VERY active when it comes to participating in mischief instead of watching things slowly fall apart. I’d upvote spacedicks for the cause.

    I have no idea why no one is talking about this unless posts/comments like that are being suppressed. Since it seems like most 3rd party apps have the best mod tools and most mods won’t keep up their work if they don’t have the right tools, the end result will be the same anyways.

    Edit: they can’t afford to pay people to replace enough mods. Spez deserves a look at what reddit will become BEFORE the IPO in my opinion.


  • Sitting on my record player as we speak! 😂

    The vinyl sleeve is absolutely gorgeous.

    It is incredibly coherent and each song very much fits into the theme they were building. I love the theme of the Island of Dr Moreau (sp?) and the Jabberwocky nonsense word stuff. It’s very sensual. It’s not mind-blowing or anything but it is a perfect album for what they were trying to accomplish (sensual, kind of dangerous but whimsical, alluring, smooth, playful, sexual). It makes a good album to buy on vinyl because with vinyl you don’t really skip songs and it favours albums that are more thematically coherent like Zaba is.


  • The Wall is the best Pink Floyd album in terms of amount of hours you can put into dissecting every single line of lyrics and using the themes to understand why people are being radicalized into right wing authoritarian movements even in 2023… It has deep narrative staying power about the cycles of trauma, abuse, self-hatred, grief, violence, losing yourself and then the power to decide for yourself to stop hurting people and try and find your own redemption, if you can… There’s almost nothing like it in existence! It also has what has been argued to be the best guitar solo of all time (in Comfortably Numb).

    David is the most emotional guitar player of all time because he grew up listening to jazz saxophone and you can only play one note at a time on the sax - he took that philosophy to his guitar so instead of shredding he knows how to use musical phrasing to build up to just single notes that rip your heart out…

    Animals is of course excellent but I find myself wanting to only listen to Sheep and Dogs more than anything else. It’s like a sandwich - best stuff in the middle.

    Wish You Were Here is a more perfect album than Animals imo, and probably more accessible to new listeners. Welcome to the Machine is a bit intense but if people could handle the random sounds section of Dark Side of the Moon then I’m sure they can handle it 😂 Dark Side of the Moon is overrated to me tbh. Time is one of the best songs of all… Time… For sure though. Us and Them and Great Gig in the Sky are also amazing but the rest of the album is just me waiting to hear those songs tbh. The guitar solo from Time is also one of my most favourite guitar solos - David is just finding his signature sound on that album and Time is just the perfect encapsulation of Pink Floyd’s overall genre which is nostalgic grief/longing for times you can’t return to. Comfortably Numb is also very heavy on those themes but the raw emotion in that one is much stronger as it is about personal grief and loss and the anguish of finally accepting/succumbing/letting go of what you can’t get back. That solo is basically the musical representation of the 5 stages of grief… That’s my personal interpretation at least (have a listen and let me know what you think). Childhood’s End is a precursor song to that theme before they find their signature sound, and nearly the entire album of Wish You Were Here is about that same theme but from the perspective of an outsider. Later on in The Division Bell and Sorrow carry on that theme, even though the post-breakup stuff is less thematically coherent.


  • Ah, I see.

    I personally don’t think people have to put too much stock into whether tankie has been used to refer to all socialists or not - those are the kind of people who don’t understand that there are more political dimensions than left/right. And even then, people will learn more about the terms and the meaning of the word will become more well known in common use.

    Personally, I think it might be useful to keep the term around because it helps observers to understand that there are different kinds of leftist politics and not all leftist thought = Stalin’s USSR. Putting a name to the specific brand of authoritarian violence helps people understand that it is something that is acknowledged, named, and disliked by different kinds of leftists. Probably good for recruiting from the general public who will feel more comfortable exploring leftist politics without having to feel like they are doing something bad if they can dip their toes into leftist spaces and think “well I should be safe because they say there are no tankies allowed here”. Lemmygrad has a literal tank in the profile pic for the instance… I feel like as long as that kind of thing is around, we need words to describe it especially for newcomers to leftist politics. Particularly as people on the right love simplified labels and ingroups/outgroups, labels can create a sense of comfort before telling them to read literature from the 1800s to understand what they are seeing. Memes are incredibly powerful tools used in the right way! Personally, I can understand having interest in marxist-leninist ideology and whatnot but I really can’t get behind genocide denial or use of indescriminate suppressive violence.

    As I said I’m listening to the Revolutions podcast right now and the Bolsheviks have just become the communists… Lenin put into the constitution that states are free to secede from the USSR but then immediately have to not actually allow that because for example Ukraine is so resource essential… What’s interesting to me learning about this stuff is that part of it is happening before the end of WWI so part of it is trying to figure all this out with imminent German imperialism on the table. And also that they all thought that other states would rise up in socialist revolution at the same time to make it all work out… It’s actually very interesting to learn more about how people THOUGHT it would all go vs how it actually all went. Tbh I just think authoritarianism is just part of Russian culture because there were secret police and imperial strongmen with monarchy, then communism, and then oligarchical capitalism… Three different political systems but new boss is the same as the old boss. Russian military doctrine has also always been good defense and horrible offense and human wave attacks for every political system they’ve had. I really think that authoritarianism is just deeply baked into the actual culture of Russia (and China) and not so much the political system tbh. These are just some random thoughts but overall I think that most random people associate political violence and oppression with leftist politics so we need language to describe how to get into leftist politics without obligatory gulag jokes.


  • Totally agree with you that the fewer cars the better, and using cars and trucks as specialty tools.

    Have you seen the YouTube channel NotJustBikes? His entire channel is a gold mine for this kind of stuff. He actually has a video on Canada’s only car-free community (Toronto Islands) and there is a very small number of transport vehicles available. Otherwise people just use those cart bike attachments for moving stuff around. The roads were built decades ago and basically have never need to be replaced because the bikes are too light to damage asphalt…



  • Not the person who you replied to but isn’t the name tankie referring to the people who support the use of tanks as a tool of political repression? Like specifically Stalin using tanks to commit mass murder and being ok with that because the massive amount of civilians killed by tanks “deserved it”?

    Not super informed but that was my impression of the name. If that is the origin, I don’t personally think it’s derogatory. Political violence is a complex topic but uhhhh I think using tanks to murder civilians instead of political targets/active combatants doesn’t make people the good guys. It’s basically just a name to refer to people who are ok with use of mass violence to subjugate people as long as the end result is achievement of a political goal. Genocide isn’t cool and people that glorify that aren’t cool either and should feel ashamed (pretty sure it also ties into denying the Holodomor genocide so). It’s basically just a name for people who think it’s ok to enforce political will over other people with mass violence. Who tf thinks that Stalin was actually a good guy? Lol

    I’m actually listening to the Revolutions podcast by Mike Duncan right now and I finally got to the Russian revolutions. I’m only up to 1906 after 39 episodes so I can’t speak to Stalin yet. What’s interesting is that the revolution of 1905 was actually pretty spontaneous with people all over coming into simultaneous revolt due to being pissed off at how their life was going. The socialist movements kind of joined/co-opted/spread information to people but it really was a mass organic grassroots movement that lead to (ultimately failed) reforms (due to the Czar being you know… A power hungry Czar). A general strike shut down the country. That’s a people’s movement… The tanks will come later to repress people who didn’t want to do what Stalin wanted them to do.

    What’s sad is that it seems to me like the people who glorify the violence of Soviet Russia/China/etc are making the same mistake that happened after the The Great Terror of the French revolution of 1789. The fear of repeating the violence of the French revolution hampered revolutionary potential across Europe for like 100+ years. Russia was able to finally get a constitution in 1905, over 100+ years after the French because monarchs heavily suppressed revolutionary thought after seeing how Robespierre/etc went sicko mode. Will the violence of the soviets/China hamper revolutionary thought for another 100 years just like the fear of French violence did? Seems to me like the tankies are making the same mistake.


  • I’m studying in a medical profession where I frequently attend to people in their homes, sometimes urgently (midwife in Canada). We are all required to have private cars to drive to people’s houses and meet people at the hospital for births and assessments.

    If the medical system would give me a free car to use for my profession that would be cool… But I’d also have to use it just like a private car because you can get called to a birth while grocery shopping since you’re on-call 24/7 as a primary care provider.

    Home care does actually take others off the road which is a fun bonus though. The first week of birth and postpartum assessments taking place in the home saves clients about 8 car rides which is great because riding in a car or driving during labour is no bueno and postpartum riding sucks. After a C-section you can’t drive either. Even in a hospital delivery postpartum care occurs in the home which people find an absolutely fantastic experience. Those appointments aren’t emergencies but there can be emergencies…

    I know of one bike midwife. But that’s extremely rare and all students must drive.


  • (@C_oldy u/C_oldy - see there’s a good question, how do I tag a user if I didn’t reply directly to them lol)

    I’m hoping that users can make posts that answer frequently asked questions and that users will look for existing posts before asking… Kind of like I accidentally did lol. I had a whole post written with a bunch of good questions that I’m sure a lot of new users will ask but it got lost in a server error lol (learned my lesson about saving drafts properly).

    Maybe the first step is to make a really good FAQ at the grade 5 level? The introduction note page is still a bit technical.

    I have found that chatGPT is excellent for both coming up with questions and for answering them at different levels… Something like “give me 10 short q and a style questions about Lemmy/the fediverse/etc and write the answers at a grade 4 level” and I’m sure you’ll be well on your way to making an excellent FAQ! Just do that over and over again, or ask it to make questions out of a submitted piece of text. Of course the real thing is being able to fact check if chatGPT is actually correct and tweaking answers but it might be a great place to start in coming up with questions you might not have thought of. This will only work in chatGPT 4 in my experience, chatGPT 3.5 isn’t smart enough to read my textbook for me and come up with good questions for exam review.

    Short q&a style questions are the best format for answering most questions because sometimes multiple questions get lost in paragraphs. People also Ctrl+f for things so repetition isn’t a problem in answers - people will be looking for key words in their questions rather than looking for key words in their answers.