Remember you are in control, you have the power. If you’re unhappy with your instance, move instance. If you’re unhappy with another instance, go outside and come back once you’ve calmed down. Especially in regards to the threadiverse, we’re better together, even when we’re apart.
“Outrage by default” is an extremely bad trait that I hope reddit refugees (like myself) don’t make common. It’s exhausting, unhealthy, and rarely helpful.
Someone in another thread made a simple but profound point: not every conversation needs to become a debate.