Remember you are in control, you have the power. If you’re unhappy with your instance, move instance. If you’re unhappy with another instance, go outside and come back once you’ve calmed down. Especially in regards to the threadiverse, we’re better together, even when we’re apart.
magnetosphere ( @HappyMeatbag@beehaw.org ) English9•11 months agoYOU”RE NOT GOING TO ACT OUTRAGED OVER SMALL THINGS
“Outrage by default” is an extremely bad trait that I hope reddit refugees (like myself) don’t make common. It’s exhausting, unhealthy, and rarely helpful.
Someone in another thread made a simple but profound point: not every conversation needs to become a debate.
Roundcat ( @Roundcat@kbin.cafe ) 9•11 months agoThe fediverse is better off if all the users and content isn’t concentrated in one instance anyway.
Say it again for the people in the back
- froghorse ( @froghorse@lemm.ee ) English7•11 months ago
Outrage is good.
When I am outraged I am the victim. The victim always dominates.
When I am outraged I always have something relevant to say.
I signal my solidarity with the other outraged people
Outrage makes me warm and happy.
halvar ( @halvar@lemm.ee ) 5•11 months agoAnd then this is the next post under this
No, no. That’s clearly not a small thing. Burn down whole buildings over that.
Magrath ( @Magrath@lemmy.ca ) 3•11 months agoIs it Threadiverse or Fediverse? I’d rather it be Fediverse to keep it from being confused with Meta’s Threads.
Threadiverse is long form, basically Lemmy, Kbin, Frendica and Writely. Fediverse is them plus Mastodon and FireFish