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Cake day: June 5th, 2023

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  • Just chiming in with the others that you’re describing genderfluidity! It’s helpful information if you’re interested in doing anything with it, but just knowing doesn’t mean you have to take steps towards any sort of transition.

    I began my transition under the genderfluid flag before realizing that I’m more genderflux (fluctuating intensity of gender, rather than fluctuating gender identity) between girl and “somewhere in the middle” - for me the question that helped me figure out what I wanted to actually do with that knowledge was “If someone just glanced at me for a second, what would I want them to assume I am?” And the answer is “girl” a lot of the time with “shrug” some of the time.

    I thought I was “fine” being a guy but damn did I hate myself. Now I love me and find me worth caring about, thanks to estrogen and self-care lol.

    Helps me a lot that my spouse is demi, and is my biggest supporter no matter how I present.





  • I run Manjaro, and use neovim for my development. I’ve got a slew of plugins for everything from language servers to database to things like integration with tmux and specialty motions.

    I’ve tried many development environments, but so far I keep coming back to nvim.

    I’ve been a fan for about 5 years at this point, and I use it for PHP+js+html at my day job and Rust for personal projects, but also any other language that comes up. Delightful to have one editor that can do basically everything and do it with consistent shortcuts, that I can even run on my phone with a folding keyboard.