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Cake day: June 1st, 2023

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  • Okay, so I watched the Ukraine video and judging only by that, it would seem that NATO and the US are mostly to blame for the war against Ukraine. I do think that the US took big steps in making a lot of places in the world worse (I’ll leave open if intended or accidentally) by installing puppet politicians/leaders and at some point (or from the get-go) just focusing on extracting as much wealth as possible. The one thing that did strike me as super-odd and suspicious was when he said that Putin did try to join NATO and was rejected and the implication of how he’s now butthurt that Ukraine gets a “better chance” at joining NATO. That one I looked up and from my now-understanding it’s that Putin/Russia basically wanted to be invited into joining NATO without needing to go through the formal process of applying for a membership, having lengthy (and important) documented talks about expected policies and ways the country would deal with certain topics, such as diversity/non-heterosexuality. And if that is true, then this is a biiig ommitted point in the Boyboy Ukraine-video.


  • I’m commenting because I’m also interested in this. I do (fortunately or unfortunately, depending on your perspective) agree with a lot the two say, find them pretty likeable and to me it did seem like they were interested in presenting a mostly neutral/open view on any issues. But I also acknowledge that they’re allowed to have complex opinions and that those might sometimes clash with mine. And they’re also not infallible and never claimed to be, so it could also be a lack of research on a particular topic.

    I think in the worst case, it’ll be similar to how I view Hassan Piker (spelling?) / the Chinese government: Even if I disagree on very important issues, I might still have some ideas in common. People are complex and stuff.


  • I’ll say that (pre-)2016 OkCupid still was able to work like a charm without paying for anything. The idealized purpose of dating apps is, or was, to have you find the right partner that you might not otherwise would have found and you might have settled for a partner that you’re ultimately only okay with, because they’re the least-bad option in your area. These apps and websites provide a place where everyone has the expectation that they want to get romantic with each other (opposed to randomly messaging people on their website / social media profile) and also the wide range of the internet, connecting people that would have never met otherwise.

    My story of 2016 OkCupid: I had freshly signed up for a week or two and my now-wife just returned from a long hiatus for only a day or so before we found each other with a 99% (at one, short, point even 100%) match But I recognise that even back then it was almost “are you sure you’re not being paid to advertise OkCupid?”-levels of coincidence








  • I think we could even be more specific in the sports seperation and let each sport figure out specific physical qualities to group their competitors into. Let me try an example: Runners could be grouped by leg and arm to body ratio (I think it’s pretty uncontroversial to say that long-legged and -armed people have an inherent advantage in running on flat ground) Probably the same for swimmers…and spear throwing…okay, fuck, maybe I don’t know enough about sports to find a differing example or there’s no olympic sport where small and slender people have a natural advantage over talls. Maybe archery? I could imagine that a beefy upper body is more important in archery than having long arms (or at least more important than having long legs)?

    I wanted to continue with “have these physical qualities as baseline groupings and allow individuals who over- or underperform despite their physicality jump into a higher/lower grouping”, which I still think is a good idea and I’m not sure if that isn’t already a thing. I’m not a sports people, as you may gather by reading this








  • The difference is that we’re way past being able to say “it’s just a political difference, we can still be friends” A neglectable political difference would be not agreeing on whether tax money should be spent on repairing neglected rural roads or upgrading public transit. Or whether you want a military draft or not. Or what food safety standards should be pursued. If you’re supporting MAGA, it means you either believe that certain groups of people do not deserve human rights and can be kidnapped/killed on a whim or you don’t care that your party is doing that. It doesnt matter that we both love Star Wars and the same video games and can talk about them for hours, if you think that people who are important to me should vanish.

    Those are the same words (but different language) I introe’d the long call with to tell my father that I’ll go low-low contact with him. I gave him my saved YT politics playlist so he can watch it to see a lot of how I came to my conclusions (it’s about 650 vids consisting of shorts, essays and anything in between) and give counter-evidence if he has any, but other than that I only want to be called in an emergency.